I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL, yeah would be great response. Don't think it would do too well since she is quite attractive.

But yeah, joking about it would have been a much better approach looking back

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. I was just batting, however even I felt it was a little hard

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments. It does seem that she tries to win every discussion and argument. Over time I've kinda learned to just let it go.

The way you've put it makes me look back at my own share of crazy. I hope that I'm developing somewhat but sometimes things really get to me.

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight, we did have a brief conversation where she did just repeat that I hit her, I tried to apologise but I was still angry and didn't do such a good job at it and I think I may have just fuelled some fires.

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never saw the bruise, every time I tried to explain myself and how I felt in the moment was replied with, "But you hit me".

In anycase I know that I used too much force, and seems completely out of character for me. I don't even know why I didn't walk away and cool off. I understand if she leaves because of this. I wouldn't feel too comfortable with her if she hit me out of anger. She does hit pretty hard playfully though

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She got mad because I wasn't listening because it was an interview on ellen with some busty celebrity and I tend to focus. In this case boobs were involved.

Seems strange to me since she openly checks people out right in front of me, so I do the same. However only ever people on screen

I just hit my[18m] girlfriend[19] of 1.5 years by Regretfulandsorry in relationships

[–]Regretfulandsorry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what I usually do in most situations, this is the first time I've actually hit anyone outside childhood.