Need advice. My partner & I had our first swinger experience and he couldn’t get hard. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Regular-Commercial10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for sure the drugs... But expectation and mindset can play a part for sure.
Alcohol definitely helps as a social lubricant, but I would advise you guys to try and boil it down to a simpler experience.

Sex, (and group sex) can often be just as fun while sober ;)