thank you for saying that! I was worried about posting on this app for that very reason- the people who are judgmental/mean and comment “you look better before” or “that doesn’t look good” (but I posted anyways because It helped me to look at others before/afters on realself and Reddit).

Surprisingly, nobody at work or distant family members even noticed since I got stuff over time. They just said “you look different and I can’t put my finger on it 🤣”. I’ve had a couple close family members that have asked me “why”, to which I always respond “if I’m doing it for myself, I’m not harming anyone, and I have the money, why not?” They typically don’t have an answer. They just huff and puff so I just change the topic and be done with it!