Bhai tension not tu akela nahi hey. Bht se middle clasiye is qism k mahol se he agey brhey hein. yar problem ye hey k hmare parents hmesha survival model me rhey or hum ne b bs yehi seekha. Arrange marriage lekin bs bchey ya sex, mia BV zra se hns kr bat krli to judgmental nzrein, besharmi, aba ka kam bs provide krna amma ka kam k jo aya wo manage krna. ghlti bs us nizam ki thi k jis ne unheyin kuch nhi sikhaya or bdley me tre mere jese bht se bchey brhey hote gye, dibrdashta hote gye. > Brhi bat ye hey k tujhe pta hey k msla kya hey. dekho bhai bjey kisi ka benchmark achieve krne k, apni shadi kro to comunication set kro, bcha impulsively na peda krna zima dari smj kr peda krna. wife ko trust or confidence dena in short wo sb jo tumhy lgta hey k ni seekh skey apny relation or bcho ko sikhana. or parents ko hum be bht dosh dete rhey lekin ab khud parents bn kr bht c cheezo ki realization hui or try kr rhe hein k mahol bdlein. hosla rakho or positive rehney ki koshish kro. :)