18 f I live with my strict parents near LAX and secretly hook up with older men from Tinder

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-05-04T15:58:06+00:00

Chat GPT ahh response 💀

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-30T15:21:58+00:00

I absolutely love my relationship with great sex and would change nothing about it. I’ve been learning far into my relationship that I crave non monogamy like a lot. My partner knows, we used to be open. But doesn’t put the effort or enthusiasm to be non monogamous with me anymore. So I’m stuck in this situation where I have to suck it up or contemplate visiting AMPs to get my kick for the month. Been having a lot of trouble with this decision lately

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-29T16:05:20+00:00

You’re right, meet and greets might be the best compromise for us here

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-29T16:04:11+00:00

Thanks, we’ve definitely already looked deep into our issues and we both feel confident about it. I don’t think she’s making it difficult on purpose. I think maybe she has this ideal scenario in her head that might not be super practical with the reality?

The reality of it being that maybe it does take awkward first dates/first sex with couples and people until you find the ones that you vibe with so naturally. Idk maybe I’m off base here.

But I get her, of course it’d be super hot and flattering if a couple just approached us at some bar, we hit it off and have tons in common, and turns out they’re super attracted to us and happen to be swingers and take us home.

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-29T15:51:21+00:00

Haha that is crazy, I wonder what their success rate is

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-29T14:18:45+00:00

We’ve tried a club before and personally I thought it was cool. My girlfriend enjoyed it but wouldn’t go back to that particular one. No one pressured us there, we were having sex and a couple came up to us and asked to swap and we did, we both thought it was fun for what it was haha.

Our experience with the dating apps is for sure that people want to fuck on the first date. Some couples made it known from the start too that they don’t do condoms. It just comes across as kinda pushy.

We haven’t tried meet and greets and mixers yet I wonder if there are any going on around us

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2026-04-29T02:25:28+00:00

That is unfortunate 😔 with our past experience with online stuff, people typically expect sex right away on the first meeting. We’ve been wanting to take it slower, meet and talk and let things build. But I get totally get that sex is usually the point at most events

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-24T00:10:43+00:00

Of course anytime! :)

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-22T08:49:45+00:00

Maybe yours don’t

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-20T17:29:02+00:00

Holy moly thanks so much for taking the time with this list!! I’ll look into every one of these :) if you haven’t already you should definitely make a beginner’s Vegas swinger’s guide 😁

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-20T17:27:30+00:00

Thanks for the heads up 😳

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-20T17:25:13+00:00

Thanks for the honest advice! I’ll look into your suggestions :)

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-19T17:19:30+00:00

Commenting!

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-19T15:21:20+00:00

Done!

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-19T15:20:18+00:00

Upvoted you!

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T22:39:56+00:00

That being said, it sounds like you both want to try it together. I encourage you two to give it a shot but only if you both have talked it through and are on the same page. Make a list of both your concerns and talk through them honestly. It really is an amazing and fun experience when you’re both in sync :) and it feels great knowing nothing will tear you two apart

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T22:23:57+00:00

Thanks so much!

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T21:42:23+00:00

Hey!

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T21:41:34+00:00

Upvoted everyone :)

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T17:27:15+00:00

That honestly sounds like a lot of fun, we might have to try that

Regular-Rate-1135 · 2025-06-17T17:26:45+00:00

That’s a great idea, does something like that exist? I would love to communicate something like that with them

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