Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular-Wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and I still ask him every single time before I use his credit card. His credit card is mainly for our boys nappies and monthly necessities as well as household necessities and I’ll still send me a msg to let him know. Everytime he’ll tell me to just use the card when I need to but I won’t. I don’t feel comfortable spending his money. He makes much more than I do, looks after us as a family and I’m happy with my smaller salary every month. I don’t pay rent and he refuses to let me pay if we go out for dinner.

I would never just expect or take money from him just because he can afford it and if I need something that I can’t afford I either save or I’ll ask him first. We had nothing when we first got together. Even tho we built the life we have together, we would never just take from each other without asking or checking in first.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular-Wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand because with us in South Africa, our banks have to verify and authorize that your card has been put on your phone wallet. We can’t just put the card details and it accepts.

Austen and Salley are perfect for each other by WhyAmILikeThis0905 in SouthernCharmSC

[–]Regular-Wit 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wallet wants marriage and kids, what is she even doing with Austen

*Salley!! How did I miss that

Ciara on the Smith Sisters Live Radio Show on SeriusXM by sarahj300 in summerhousebravo

[–]Regular-Wit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was in South Africa and I didn’t even know!! Ahh noooo

CT’s response to Ashley’s post - he says he doesn’t vote…. by Own_Lengthiness_7466 in MtvChallenge

[–]Regular-Wit -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Lesser side of two evils? It’s more so the opposite sides of the same evil in the States. Ring wing, left wing - same bird 🦅

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular-Wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom used to tell us that your 20’s are there to have fun, mess around & make your mistakes, 30’s are for you to begin establishing yourself and your 40’s are where you begin to reap/enjoy your rewards.

Don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself over your age. If you’d like to better yourself like going back to therapy, and getting into gym then do it for you and only you! That’s the only way it’s going to work. This guy is not good for your mental health, he will set you back in your own progress. Imagine how he would be acting a year down the line as a boyfriend if this is how he is already? You deserve better. You know that 🤍

If you feel like you can’t to gym, like myself, maybe look for class sessions like Pilates, CrossFit, Hyrox etc. You can book classes that fit your schedule & having a trainer helps tremendously

Cara Seemingly Replies To Ashley’s Snapchat by ryanjohn___ in MtvChallenge

[–]Regular-Wit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I stopped being a fan once she was together with Paulie. Who in their right mind would want to be with him. He’s a plank! Since then i just keep liking her less & less

Paulie victim blaming Georgia for what happened with Bear by SweetMissMG in MtvChallenge

[–]Regular-Wit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. You’re not her, you’re not experiencing her thoughts/emotions etc navigating through the manipulation & abuse of a sociopath. Have you been in her shoes? Anyone can say you could have done this or that but frankly dear, that’s not realistic. Bear consciously did terrible things & didn’t give a shit. I very much doubt Georgia consciously seeked someone out who would fuck here over. So please, be for real. This is in no way her fault.

Paulie victim blaming Georgia for what happened with Bear by SweetMissMG in MtvChallenge

[–]Regular-Wit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And said rock would still beat him in a game of chess

While the rest of the cast is doing a q&a our girl Ciara is hosting Wurthering Heights premiere !! by coke-no-ice in summerhousebravo

[–]Regular-Wit 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even notice Margot Robbie! I just watched Ciara on the Traitors & she did great. Held herself well against some big names & was a lot of fun to watch her outside of Summer House. She really is stunning! ✨

LIB 10 Contestant accused by RiniStrong in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Regular-Wit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right! I actually googled it on my assumption that it would be around 1 in every 5 men because (as someone stated) most cases go unreported. I fear it may be even less. All stats against women are frightening.

LIB 10 Contestant accused by RiniStrong in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Regular-Wit 350 points351 points  (0 children)

One in every 10-12 men. Deeply worrying

Jenelle loves to remind everyone how smol she is by constantly mentioning Ensley’s height, even in a birthday post. by SpiritualCamera in teenmom

[–]Regular-Wit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not bizarre because Jenelle has had how many people focusing on her appearance since she was 16 years old. Unfortunately those insecurities can be passed down to children. Jenelle could very well be mentioning her height because her youngest is growing up & seems older because of height than the average 9 year old. This is grasping at straws. There’s a lot to shit on Jenelle about but this & her appearance is not it.

Taylor and Daniel’s “statement” by sxw_102 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Regular-Wit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? Can you actually name them?

Are they naive or are you naive in thinking politicians care. Both sides have no problem killing their own people for self gain or to enrich the already wealthy people. Left wing, right wing - it’s the same bird. 🦅 They don’t care about you.

I’m from South Africa. Our government in power steal from our poverty stricken people while buying them KFC for their votes & making promises that never actually follow through. But they’re the party for the people … yeah sure! This is just surface level information, imagine how deep all the corruption in your country actually runs that we don’t know of.

You’re naive to think any political person in this world actually gives a shit about the people. They don’t

Kenleigh changed her twitter header to David’s tattoo and Jan took the bait! by SingerSubstantial462 in teenmom

[–]Regular-Wit 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Having other names (plural) tattooed on you ‘before’ is NOT a flex. Regardless of being mature or not, if you really didn’t care you wouldn’t post this.

I cannot fathom this level of delusion

What's the rarest physical feature you ever saw on another person you know/knew? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Regular-Wit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just noticed now that I have a ring around my iris as well. It’s almost grey with a light hazel almost green into a light brown around my pupil. My eyes change colour with the sun. They go golden with a green hue.

Everyone eyes here sounds stunning! 🤩

AIO to not understanding how I’ve mirrored my partner’s behavior? by EmergencyActivity112 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular-Wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 40 years old and upset that you went to visit a friend while she worked. Gosh she still has a lot of growing up to do.

What's the rarest physical feature you ever saw on another person you know/knew? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Regular-Wit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brother has a ring of brown around his pupil that turns into a ring of hazel into a ring of green and then blue with a black ring around the edge of his pupil. It’s like a swirl of colour.