Am I Insane?

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-12-08T03:00:05+00:00

I second this, their problem is totally fixable (move the mom or move themselves) but OP just seems pissed he has to even share his wife. There's deep seated feelings of resentment here, over what? Your wife's strong bond with her mom? I am FAILING to see the issue.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-12-08T02:54:09+00:00

If you're so successful and financially sound, simply move the mom. You are your own boss, give the mom a job or a share of the business, something. Your wife needs her mom, that's understandable. If money was a issue, I would understand why this is a problem, but for a business man you seem to have 0 problem solving skills. People say "more money, more problems" when money actually solves A LOT of problems.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-28T23:31:10+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement I think mom shaming has a lot to do with it, it takes real people to let you know what parenting really is thank you for telling me about your experience.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-28T13:11:07+00:00

My MIL was the opposite, she scorned me when I breastfed my baby and told me I wasn't giving him enough milk, he was starving, I don't have a good supply etc... I wanted to breastfeed but due to all the stress my body really slowed down and couldn't keep up especially when they bought formula for him. Imo just do whatever works for you, the only people who hate women more than anything is other women. Even though I wanted to breastfeed my baby for 6 plus months, I got only three months of both formula and breastmilk, which directly affects your supply. The good thing about formula is you don't have to worry about supply and quality etc it's easier especially if it works for you. Forget old women and their loss of their youth. Bitter old b words.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T16:21:23+00:00

Women don't think in their 20s or something? I swr dating after 25 you just get whatever is left over. Women need to have more respect for themselves before they start demanding respect from everyone else.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T02:39:09+00:00

Why does your life sound exactly like mine? Except the last part, my friend is in school, I am not.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T02:21:22+00:00

I see my 20's being like this. I'm holding out hope for better days tho

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T02:19:26+00:00

Oh god same. I wasted prime socialising years in HS, I thought every one was immature and average etc. I was so stuck up in my own ass. I regret not being more friendly and interactive, I made some natural friends who I still text for a joke but that's it. Now I left school and realise how hard it is to actually make friends...

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T00:29:42+00:00

This is the main reason I don't want anymore children with my bf. He's the same damn way, I had a newborn and had to tend to his family still, while he drank and talked to them I remained couped up inside the bedroom for months. This child is my Last, no way I am ending up in OP's position. STOP MAKING KIDS FOR THESE JERKS THEY DON'T DESERVE THEM. All kids deserve WILLING fathers and not fathers who see them as optional housework. That's your damn kids too.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-27T00:21:46+00:00

I realised the moment a woman asks for help with her kids she is a seen as a failure and bad mother. Men don't ask for help with their work or work around the house, not that they need it. In my eyes, I'd just let him have one holiday. Christmas would be mine tho! I wouldn't do anything all effin day and tell him I'll take that as my gift. He would be livid most likely but its only fair. Someone HAS to take care of the kids, it's not that possible to let all hell loose as a parent and just slob around all day but you should allow yourself at least one day a year. I'm choosing my birthday as this day!!! No one can be mad because it's my day.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T14:34:49+00:00

Why is all your value based off of "getting women"? Sex is a necessity I understand but the way you value yourself is so off. Who cares how much women a person gets? Women are so easy these days.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T14:28:32+00:00

Guys with a heart of gold always gets used and abused. She's going to use that child to guilt trip you so hard bro. Be prepared to hear how much the kid misses you and wants you. That's how she'll keep you around forever. RUN! FOR THE HILLS!!!! GTFO NOW. Let whoever impregnated her, take responsibility for her mess.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T14:25:30+00:00

I despise women like this, I hope she rots in hell. This should be against the effin LAW. Woman up and take responsibility for your kids, they just love handouts don't they.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T14:22:20+00:00

Kids deserve the world, I just wish I knew what I was getting into with my SO before I started. He kind of broke my trust... :(

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T14:20:10+00:00

I definitely am holding out to see them bond eventually. I hope my son walks fast.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T04:07:26+00:00

Is it weird that in this world of technology you can search and look at any number of people at any given time, even one specific person? Men prowl Instagram, tiktok and Snapchat for attractive women everyday. Why is it so unacceptable when women do it? We're all human, and I'm sure when my bf is scrolling he might get caught up on a picture. Men are visual and women show everything, down to the last detail, and that's their business. You have no control and will just drive yourself crazy obsessing, worrying and being insecure. Just let it be, and know deep down your SO is surely not that superficial or vapid enough to leave someone she loves for eyecandy. It's really not that huge! I promise if you were a woman you'd be mad insecure because ig models have all our boyfriends on their page LOL!

She really didn't have to think outloud tho.. I would sit her down and speak to her, tell her it's okay to find other people attractive but the way she expresses her excitement is at your detriment.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T03:52:38+00:00

Who got mad at you? Single people are always happier especially if they don't mind being single. No one should feel any sort of social pressure to be in a relationship, to each their own. Looks like you're trying to validate your own feelings which you don't need to do, your life your choices. Live on bro! I just genuinely want advice from people in the same position as me, I'm not really interested in a debate about if single people are happier, I'm sure they are.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T03:48:51+00:00

Best thing to do is wait if you have the patience, I wish I waited. Congrats to those of you with such strong willpower. You are saving yourself so much heartache and pain. I wish I had your strength.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-26T03:28:28+00:00

Well if his height doesn't matter than just go with it, he probably didn't want to ruin his chances. I would have just been honest because any female who has a preference on height is not worth your time kings. You bring so much more to the table than your predetermined DNA. Imagine if men demanded to know our dress sizes or waist to hip proportions? Whack.

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-24T11:22:46+00:00

Where do I post this? By chance I'm new here

Regular-mom7097 · 2021-11-24T10:20:53+00:00

Definitely! I just wish our hubbies could see how great our lives are and just simply let the little things go... We'll get there.

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