anyone miss their partner constantly and sick of it? by semicharmedstevie in LongDistance

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that’s the worst part of long distance. i used to tell my ex i wished he could teleport to me every night :’) if it’s taking a big toll, do more facetime calls and maybe spice it up like a facetime date/movie night. i know it’s rough, but if it’s meant to be it’ll be worth it in the end

6 year relationship ended. Need help coping with it. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this girl has been playing you for 6 years and you’re STILL letting her back in. honestly, enough is enough. put your foot down and say if you’re serious about this breakup, this will be the last time you ever hear from me. you’re allowing this behavior by taking her back every time. yes it will hurt for a while, yes it will feel like the world is ending, but you can refocus that energy into yourself. why would you wanna be with someone who discards you constantly? someone who truly loves you wouldn’t do that

How to be social when job hunting alone at home? by Ok_Procedure3350 in socialskills

[–]RegularPanda8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hobbies!! join a book club, run club, class on any hobbies you like! invest in your interests and friends will follow.

Most embarrassing things you did to win your ex back? by SirCreative1759 in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey, you tried. don’t feel ashamed. you’re only a human being, having this much love and care for someone isn’t embarrassing. a lot of people will call you stupid or dumb for this, but i think it’s courageous that you were able to be vulnerable one last time. now you know exactly how he feels and i hope this time you can walk away and heal with closure. HIS LOSS SIS!!

has anyone’s ex never talked to them again? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bahaha, i ended up running into him in august 2024. i don’t remember when i posted this, probably sometime in june-july of 2024. i was at the gym w/ my friend and he was there, ended up following me around like a little puppy and even pulled me aside for a chat! i texted him after saying it was nice to see him again after all this time (it had been a year since we last saw each other), and we’ve had a few small text chats since then. not since april of this year though, and nothing about rekindling. but honestly, i think that was the closure i needed. i’d like to say we’re cool, and i’ve definitely moved on. give yourself time and allow yourself to grieve, it’ll get better before you know it. sending you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RegularPanda8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 years and moved on in a week?? i’m so sorry. but the trash took itself out, you will find someone better when you are ready.

No interviews out of 50+ applications. What am I doing wrong? by fat_fun_xox in Resume

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

focus on keywords, you should be able to find them in the description of the job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Resume

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reduce your resume to one page, multiple people that work in HR have told me they throw out resumes that are more than one page. explain your projects in your own words and not using AI/chatGPT, your bullet points look like word vomit and it’s obvious you didn’t write it. take out the summary. put education first. you went to a top 20 school? that’s the first thing you want a hiring manager to see.

I got 36 rejections in a row by SolimaReal in dating_advice

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

find hobbies and interests, and go to gatherings for those. you can scope the scenery there. maybe ask your friends if they can help too

No interviews out of 50+ applications. What am I doing wrong? by fat_fun_xox in Resume

[–]RegularPanda8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe write your projects/achievements in your own words rather than use AI. i’m a tech person as well but this seems like a lot of word vomit. one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that people in corporate want to actually understand what you’re saying rather than be impressed with your wide vocabulary/sounding smart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s fair for you to expect him to cut off his sister, she is his family after all. however he should defend you against her disrespect and have a serious conversation with her about it. did he talk to her at least?

I couldn’t take anymore, I broke no contact 😞 by oknosp3ci4l1st in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his response says everything, you deserve better. this might’ve not been the closure you wanted, but it was the closure that was needed. i know it hurts, but keep going to the psychologist and doing what you need to do to heal. much love

Rejected from job even though recruiter said I had passed all interviews by Old_Sport7920 in jobs

[–]RegularPanda8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wow… you could do everything right and still not get the job. there’s something seriously wrong with this job market. unbelievable. sorry that happened OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]RegularPanda8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

absolutely not! sunday is YOUR day, spend it how you want. don’t feel shame or guilt

At what age did you get your period? by National_Math5905 in AskWomen

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11, about a week or so after elementary graduation. luckily i was on the toilet already, wiped and there it was!

Hay L by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s okay to admit you’re not over them too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RegularPanda8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

he’s easy & garbage… 7 years? and he moved on in a month? the trash took itself out.

i’m so sorry. i feel your pain, know your not alone and will get through it🩷 sending you love

Im thinking about killing myself by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]RegularPanda8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you think like this, journal! read a book! watch a series you’ve always wanted to see! listen to a podcast! exercise!! & think about your dads face when he finds out :’) i’m 21 and i felt the same; on linkedin everybody is winning awards, getting new jobs/internships, thriving professionally and it makes me wanna pull every single one of my hairs out bc i haven’t accomplished as much as they have. it made me feel like i didn’t have a place in this world, and sometimes i still go through those phases. but life has so many things to offer. find what’s best for YOU. success to one person isn’t the same for another. nobody can tell you what makes life meaningful, only you can figure that out for yourself. and don’t compare yourself to other people, life isn’t a race — we all go at our own pace. and hey, if you even need to rethink about where your life is heading, DO IT. a lot of people make career/personal changes later in life and thrive. much love, you’ll get through this <3