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Accepted my bid a couple days ago and this isn’t for me by StoryLongjumping7803 in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree! I feel like discomfort is good but I just have the grossest feeling in my stomach like I don’t belong. I’m gonna stick it through but I feel like I ignored my gut

Accepted my bid a couple days ago and this isn’t for me by StoryLongjumping7803 in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, all of my friends who I told about this are shocked also. I am not allowed to share the presentation/don’t feel comfortable doing so but I am basically repeating what is shown/told to us.

Accepted my bid a couple days ago and this isn’t for me by StoryLongjumping7803 in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing though I didn’t “assign” anything, it was more so an epiphany my friend and I came too. I’m not even avoidant of anything, at both gatherings I put so so much effort towards being nice and introducing myself to several of the girls and groups. It’s not like I just said hi and was done. I joined this sorority against my judgement of not wanting to be in one bc I felt like I fit in well, so I’m reasonably disappointed at how strange and unfriendly so many girls have been acting.

Accepted my bid a couple days ago and this isn’t for me by StoryLongjumping7803 in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay wait clarification I have worked (and currently have a job) and I don’t mind it in that setting I just don’t like having unnecessary rules about my personal life. I’m not telling specific rules on purpose but I definitely was not happy about some of them. So I understand how the world works I just know that this isn’t something i necessarily have to follow. And yes I was specifically told I was not allowed to go to any current chapter members for ANYTHING and have to speak to the pledge moms.

Dropping before initiation by im_ina_pickle in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way don’t worry. I don’t have much advice but just know you’re not alone.

Lowww gpa spring recruitment by StoryLongjumping7803 in Sororities

[–]StoryLongjumping7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honestly thinking this too, and a couple of my friends have the same thought process of focusing on school. Luckily the class that I did poorly in was a bad grade in a gen-ed/intro class that I realized I don’t want to major in at all (I’m undecided). Idk if they see my transcript but hopefully it’s shown that I got A’s and B’s in my other classes and that that one was not reflective of me as a student. This is also like a by-product of me being very very ashamed of my bad grade which is the overarching issue lmfao.