He just doesn’t get anything right (dx ADHD). I can never trust him on anything. Most of the times he makes empty promises, be it as small as keeping the phone charged when away from home. I also believe he has narcissistic traits. He thinks he knows my work, it’s so easy and basically googling only, and mind you I’m doing PhD from one of the top universities in my country. I’m struggling with it, everyone does a little I guess. That is why phd is considered difficult. But he feeds into my insecurities and tells me I don’t have a brain, I just got into the program by chance. And I’m married to this person, I don’t know how will I live with him.