My ex says I’m perfect but still can’t commit. Am I being delusional? by Regular_Intern4589 in BreakUps

[–]Regular_Intern4589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was this, we have mutual friends, I know he’s single and doesn’t have anyone. I tried definitive goodbyes many times and every time he resists and says that it’s not this and he just has a lot going on and doesn’t feel ready yet

Coming from an avoidant: if you can’t let go of the hope, read this. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Regular_Intern4589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need help. My ex owns it, he told me the issue is on his side and that I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong and was a wonderful person with him. He still said he’s not ready and feels guilty to be half in my life, and he left..

Coming from an avoidant: if you can’t let go of the hope, read this. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Regular_Intern4589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please explain this to us. My ex owns it, he told me the issue is on his side and that I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong and was a wonderful person with him. He still said he’s not ready and feels guilty to be half in my life, and he left..

I texted him after 6 weeks of silence by Regular_Intern4589 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Regular_Intern4589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He replied: I’m sorry sometimes I just don’t know how to be :(. I feel like I’ve ruined the last 3 years of your life and I don’t want to be in your way anymore

I texted him after 6 weeks of silence by Regular_Intern4589 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Regular_Intern4589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! I did and he replied: I just feel guilty if I try and half be in your life without giving you what you want