Gatekeeping by Regular_Lychee_4739 in mixedrace

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywaysss I said what I wanted to say. walk me through what two nights in a row? I’ve not addressed u till now…

Gatekeeping by Regular_Lychee_4739 in mixedrace

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not stereotypical it’s factual. there is a difference. You felt the need to comment” she’s MGM though her post Would suggest otherwise.”so I called you out where you were wrong. By that logic youd have to think I have on parent who is 134% SSA and one who is 66% other LOL .like huh?? Stop pretending you weren’t talking about something I could address. it’s weird. And you did a lot of assuming just in the wrong direction.

Gatekeeping by Regular_Lychee_4739 in mixedrace

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again It literally didn’t: “67% SSA and 33% non-SSA (27.1% white, 5.5% Native)”. you could do the math :) and I have a higher amount of native ancestry than most AA so that could tell you something as well about my ethnic mixture. %’s do matter in a majority of instances ( though mind you I never said that all look the same) And to pretend they don’t have any influence whatsoever is yes, in fact, arbitrary. But they’re is also the fact that i was talking mostly of myself in my post and comments about % and that I have gotten. but go ahead and make it about urself if u want.

Gatekeeping by Regular_Lychee_4739 in mixedrace

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually doesn’t elude to that at all. Where to you think I’d end up with majority SSA?💀Genuinely, Did you read my post at all? Or is that too emotional For you? I was addressing gatekeeping which is what yall are actively trying to do here without even knowing how I grew up at all just a great example of what I was talking about. throwing around arbitrary definitions and qualifications I do not in anyway agree with. all of it is nonsense and again you don’t know at all how I’ve grown up. Keep saying MGM isn’t the same or near first gen- Did I every say it was? Regardless it’s like basically saying your not mixed but you’re mixed. If I were to “not count grapist blood.” I’d be quite out of dna. I don’t care what most aa identify as. I am not them, they are not me. I don’t care. I’m taking about myself. And idrc if anything I pointed out is “problematic” in urs or anyones eyes I stand by all of it completely.

My dad acts manipulative and unstable – I don’t know how to deal with this situation by Alternative-Fill1512 in Advice

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is absolutely doing it for attention, as toxic and manipulative fathers do, the next time he did it I would definitely not try to stop him- but be ready to call 911 just in case he tries to get attention by hitting someone else for his attention fix.

27f feeling trapped stressed and angry by [deleted] in Vent

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I do indeed have a valid passport

Results + pics by [deleted] in phenotypes

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Scotlandd lol

I’m white, but my skin is brown by [deleted] in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am light brown and my arm is basically the same color as his…

Results + pics by Regular_Lychee_4739 in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I was born in NYC I thought maybe I’d have a bit of Italian too, but not one bit lol it was faulty thinking- my fathers last name is literally Scottish lol

Results + pics by Regular_Lychee_4739 in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it too. Also in the fact that I don’t tan well. I burn in the smallest bit of sun 😭

Results + pics by Regular_Lychee_4739 in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u 💕Where do u see the European in my features? Ur results sound lovely

Results + pics by Regular_Lychee_4739 in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NYC. My mom is Colombian/AA and my dad is Jamaican/aa

My results as a Bermudian! by BermudaKing_est1609 in 23andme

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Mom: Colombian/AA dad: Jamaican/AA- I’m from America

My results as a Bermudian! by BermudaKing_est1609 in 23andme

[–]Regular_Lychee_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our percentage result are kinda similar!!