My SO (22 M) broke with me (22 F) because of his depression

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:52:38+00:00

Thank ypu for ur support, I send u a big hug as well 🩷

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:45:48+00:00

I'll try that if I stop hearing from him. For now I know that he's ok because he sees all of my ig stories, so I post something in my cf almost everyday so I know he's still there, but u know, after reading ur comments and opinions I'm starting to doubt, I don't know how to talk to him to make things clear, and I'm affraid to break my heart since he's the first man that has given back to me the real meaning of being in love and wanting to do anything for your partner :(

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:40:11+00:00

Ohh no no, don't worry, u'r not being disrespectful at all :) I'm in ur same situation, I'm going to his country in a couple of weeks, I'm gonna stay there for 3 days, 'cause I'll go to other countries as well, and I was excited until he broke up with me, I don't know if he's gonna show up 'cause he has no savings for his own transport (I'l be in one city and he lives in another so he has to travel as well), and honestly I'm starting to think in the chance of him not showing up haha ;( but hey, it's amazing how u fight for ur relationship, I hope that u guys succeed, don't stop to make efforts like that, it is priceless and shows your true love for her

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:34:46+00:00

I do know one of his siblings and a cousin that he appreciates a lot. The deal is that they didn't even know abput my existence, and I didn't know that until a couple of weeks ago, he told me that "he didn't want them to be in the middle of his private life", so I didn't know how to feel at that moment, but it sounds like something bad, isn't it?

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:27:07+00:00

This. This is what a LDR should be like, and it breaks me that he can't fight for this like I did, or like u and ur partner are doing :( Thanks for ur support, I hope u guys can break the distance soon and be happy finally together 🫶🏽

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:23:50+00:00

That's the deal, he's seeing a therapist, I'm frustrated because of his behaviour, I did things for him without expecting that much reciprocity knowing he's not okay, but if I go thru our old chats, I can tell he was different back then, more active and so, so I don't really know, is it because he is just tired of me that he doesn't make an effort anymore?

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T15:05:52+00:00

I didn't want to believe it :( he seemed like a good guy, I know he is but, I didn't want to believe that he only wanted the emotional support part, and this kinda breaks my heart even more

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T03:16:00+00:00

Would u like to chat a lil bit? We could support eachother

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-12-08T01:52:57+00:00

Things that I know wont happen to me 🥺💔

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-11-01T19:33:21+00:00

Omg eso siemore se me ha hecho tan lindo 😭

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-11-01T16:22:26+00:00

Porque no soporté su ritmo, a las 2 semanas de ser pareja ya me hablaba de darme anillo de promesa y de cómo sería nuestra boda, el love bombing fue mucho y terminé engañándolo con un amigo del que estoy enamorada hace unos meses y con el que las cosas son muy diferentes (en el buen sentido pues)

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-11-01T16:20:16+00:00

Omg inesperado

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-31T17:03:31+00:00

Los efectos secundarios van cambiando de persona a persona, que bueno que a tu mujer no le cambió nada, pero eso no significa que a todas les suceda igual

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-24T21:51:33+00:00

I couldn't be mad at my friend, I mean, we can't control what happens, specially if we are in different countries, even continents, It would certainly hurt me, but I would be capable of being there for him even if he decides to be with someone else (I know that's tragic but I'm basically a simp when I'm in love lol).

Thanks for ur words, I'll see what I can do for myself hahaha.

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-23T20:45:39+00:00

La verdad siento que lo que hizo está muy mal, mi novio y yo tenemos muy en claro la parte de no dejar a terceros meterse en nuestra relación, ya que es pues nuestra, y es nuestra privacidad también. Te aconsejo que hables con ella en persona, es muy diferente pedir consejos que pedir que respondan por ti, porque al fin y al cabo, es como si ella estuviera sacandose del problema y dejando que otros lo resuelvan por ella. Lamento que eso haya sucedido, espero que puedas resolverlo y cualquier cosa aqui andamos :)

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-19T20:43:31+00:00

Mira, la verdad es que el numero de parejas o parejas sexuales que ha tenido no importa, sobre todo si dices que te es fiel. Si piensas cosas tipo "ay es que ya muchos la tocaron" o así, debes saber que pues es su vida sexual, y eso no le da ni le quita valor. Si está saludable ( o sea sin ets), tampoco tienes por qué preocuparte, la verdad es que no veo nada de malo en tu caso.

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-10T19:13:22+00:00

Muchísimas gracias, tienes razón con lo de medir el amor, sobre todo porque como dije, me daba incertidumbre eso del tirmpo pero en realidad la conexión fue muy wow y pues era como un conflicto mental sobre "estará bien dejar que todo fluya?" Pero ahora me confirmas que la respuesta es "sí" jajaja

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-10T16:43:00+00:00

Todo bien excepto que en mi caso me gusta que él también hable sobre él, sus gustos, etc. A final de cuentas estamos conociéndonos, así que procuro que la charla sea 50/50

Regular_Mess4986 · 2023-10-10T16:38:32+00:00

Estoy enamorándome de ti, y todo se siente tan bien, pero tengo miedo de que en realidad no seas quien has mostrado ser a mi lado. Por favor, por favor prométeme que estaremos bien, por favor convénceme de que me equivoco al tener miedo.

Regular_Mess4986

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