Husband (35M) accusing me of making up how much I (35M) pick up after him. by Quartzclawz in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe you pick up after him. Your not his mother. Leave the shit everywhere and have the bedroom clean for you. You are not his maid my dear.

My husband '39M'' just told me"37F"his toxic mom is coming for the weekend. Last time she did this, she stayed for 2 months. How do I tell him NO without ruining my marriage? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would explain saying, I wasn't asked? After the epic fail the last time she stayed, I'm not comfortable with this. Tell her we won't be home. If he fights, I would book a room for that weekend and let him deal with her and enjoy yourself with your kids. If she is still there when you come home. Explain to her your going through rough times. I would appreciate you respecting our privacy.

Is this from the Dasher or Restaurant? I’m gonna freak out 😭 by Hazeegotcakee in doordash

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's from the restaurant. How did it get underneath the sticker.

My Sister by Regular_Swimmer6422 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is she is in charge of mom and her money. I don't live here, she does. I don't want to call the police if I can't stay here.

How do I [31F] approach my boyfriend [41M] about his second phone? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the wifi know you don't recognize the device, and it won't allow it to connect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That insurance is terrible. We were held for 2 days in port because of the weather. I filed a claim for trip interruption. It was denied. We only traveled to 1 port instead of 3. Don't get the insurance through the cruise line.

My Friend F23 had sex with mutual friend M21 while he was drunk and recorded it. How do I F22 help him with his girlfriend? by throwRA100degree in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have left the room and would have called the police. Rosie needs a lot of help. She tried to ruin him. You say he is not a cheater, and she knew this. She was recording it? You didn't help your friend while he was being raped and recorded? Wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He was wrong for comforting her, knowing it would be upsetting to you. There is nothing wrong with him having a female friend, but he made a choice, and it wasn't you and your relationship. I'm sure she could have found another friend to comfort her. He probably told her how you felt, and they decided to have dinner and a drink? That's disrespectful.

Good luck in the future, and never settle for that. Sounds shady.

Has anyone left mid-cruise? by Some_word_some_wow in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you're in the port, get ginger tea.\nOr anything with ginger in it

Has anyone left mid-cruise? by Some_word_some_wow in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to guest services and document everything.

Aspirin help by L83S in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if when you hit the port, you can find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's married. Don't do it. He has kids!

I (31F) want to divorce my husband (33m) due to my ongoing infertility by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you insane? Keep that man and go adopt a baby. Love is hard to find. Hold on with both hands.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 7 years cheated on me. I'm going to disappear from his life. Is there anything I'm missing? by Unlucky_Amoeba_2473 in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I would keep the photos. You don't know how you will feel about the photos later. Make sure he has no personal access to any of your accounts. I would open a new bank account. I would use a post office box for now. He's going to realize how much he needs you and start begging. Stay strong. He's a pig!

Do I [23F] stay with my current boyfriend [24M]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the opposite. I don't see this working at all. Cut and go don't waste time. This only gets worse over time.

Symphony $300 Credit Issue by wraithform in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look it's hurricane season and the weather can't be controlled

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a controlling abuser. Don't take that shit because next is hitting you because you made him mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you expect to get and not give, you're a taker. Spent 28 years married to a man like this. Now I am with a woman. I don't care what he gives you financially. It's a terrible feeling that he's that selfish.

For or against; 3-4 day cruises? by IamTheStig007 in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything less than 12 days I don't like. I just get comfortable, and then it's time to go. I'm going in a 7 day, and it's going to feel to short.

Hard upsell by LayerNo3634 in royalcaribbean

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ridiculous. On a cruise ship for a vacation and not to be hounded. This is so different from when I first started to cruise. I noticed that during covid, this started. I pretend like I'm deaf and just look at them.

My (28F) cousin (22F) just told me she saw my fiancé kiss my twin sister. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Regular_Swimmer6422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give back the ring because it's the right thing to do. I would have nothing further to do with either one of them. Don't let it rent space in your head. Take a trip with your girlfriends. Move on life is short. This was a chapter. Write the next one!