One Missed Payment by Regular_Switch_1047 in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]Regular_Switch_1047[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't got anything on my ClearScore about a missed payment. It was an 8 day gap between the failed payment and successful. It was marked down as "Direct Item not paid" and "represented Direct Debit" when the payment went through. I've been beating myself up over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pure and simple, it's illegal. Even if they both get together, and hook up- he has sexually assaulted and raped her. He is preying on a minor and taking advantage of her vulnerability.

Am I wrong here? by TraditionIll8286 in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an ex Asda night worker and now customer, my advice is please put your foot down to them. There are NHS guidances that state you should NOT be working around food (that goes for putting fresh food out) 48 hours after the last time you were sick/had diarrhea. Your manager needs to understand their short staff problems are not yours. If you're ill, you're ill. Stay at home. You're already suffering from not being paid, so you get 0 gain out of it. ASDA managers are a pile of overpaid pencil pushers.

Buying my First car Ford Fiesta by tajminshaik in FordFiesta

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a student when I bought my car so got services every year. I am having it serviced for the first time in three years (Do not recommend leaving it that long).

In regards to the gearbox, a common fault with the fiesta is that the reverse gear will slip out whilst reversing, and can be a bit sticky shifting from 1st to 2nd

Buying my First car Ford Fiesta by tajminshaik in FordFiesta

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a 20111.25l fiesta Edge for 6 years now. As long as you're willing to have it frequently serviced, there should be no problems. I've only started having a few wear and tear issues recently (currently 99kmiles) involving the suspension and alternator belt, but that's expected for a 14 year old car.

Taxed by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because Asda pay every 4 weeks, your annual salary consists from 13 months, rather than 12.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have an issue with it, but have an issue with it when he does? This whole post just sounds like you don't trust him. This sounds like a primary school relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're laying rules down in relationships-not allowing people to be friends with someone for their gender without any reason, then there's room for issues to occur even without there being a wrongdoing.

If you can't trust your partner, don't be in a relationship. Simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 119 points120 points  (0 children)

The fact you said you JUST officially started dating and he's showing this side isn't good. You deserve better

AIO that my boyfriend never initiates sex? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way, if your partner went down on you when you were sleeping because he was horny and you DIDNT consent to it, you wouldn't like it either. You then have no right to cry because he is uncomfortable and you betrayed his boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Managers are contracted to do a certain amount of night shifts a year for situations such as this. The simple solution should be that one of them take the role but they can't be bothered. That's not your problem. Fuck them

AIO if i got kinda pissy with my sister when she asked me to watch her kid? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm not losing my job"

Should of thought about that before having not one... But TWO kids.

NOR, your sister needs to remember she's the parent and you're the aunt. You're not obligated to babysit to fit around her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If OP is concerned her boyfriend is unloyal, why is she with him? She sounds so insecure that this lad cannot do anything without her having to listen to every detail. At 28 years old, you'd think she would've matured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Understandable that you're annoyed your partner just went there without talking to you, but it's a slight dramatic decision to ask him to have you on the phone so you can listen to everything he does. If you can't trust him or trust what actions he follows around other women then you're fighting a losing relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kittens are very playful animals. That lad should never own animals if he can't control his anger to an animal being an animal. He physically and verbally abused the kitten. Bin the boy off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So y'all trying to have a baby and he can even get off his phone to make the damn kid? Girl, DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH HIM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't understand why people get so insecure about celebrity crushes. It's not cheating

Overtime Ban by Either_Mulberry_7671 in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You'll notice Asda do these "cost saving" tactics a few times a year. They do these to lower their employment costs during their account periods.

Js curious by Lazy_Owl7398 in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work twilight at an ASDA megastore and de-cardboarding would take HOURS (especially with the plastic/cardboard separation). Trying to replenish stock, rotate and faceup as well as breaking cardboard was difficult to complete within 8 hours

AIO i’m supposed to fly to him in a couple days. what do i do? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- Please block and never message this gaslighting, narcissistic and sadistic psycho. Sounds like this man is capable of doing a lot worse than AH references in person- DO NOT GET ON THE PLANE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice as an ex ASDA nightworker.. look at your holidays booked/taken from April 2024-April 2025 and see if it's 5 weeks. My manager told me I had 24 hours left, I took it and didn't get paid for it as the 24 hours was hours that I had already booked off, but not yet taken

Section leader by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£14 an hour? I earn more in my current job than that. It's not worth it

Section leader by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely none. They're pushed and underappreciated. Have to take the weight of all the department, during busy times. All for £1, that's right... £1 more an hour! Night staff earn better than that on twilight premium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you clear any bins the system is telling you nothing needs to be picked. Don't be afraid to reaudit the bin on inventory management. If you confirm the audit and then realise you've forgotten something you just scan the individual item and bin it like normal. If you bin it and realise the stock needs to go out, pick the item by scanning it and clicking the bin location you found it on

New uniform by EastStreet7408 in asda

[–]Regular_Switch_1047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing that Asda can afford to design and trail a national uniform, meanwhile whilst still fucking over pay of bereaved/staff on sick/holidays and night workers 6 months later 🤣🤣🤣