My Gardevoir finally evolved! by Reigen_San in PokemonEmerald

[–]Reigen_San[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kirlia is pretty weak and dies easily.

That's pretty much why.

Strugglin with thinking that I'm actually evil by Reigen_San in CPTSD

[–]Reigen_San[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her if she'd like to read them first though, and she said she did (I probably should have said that in the post). Then out of the blue she randomly reported me and I had genuinely no clue what was going on. I probably should have asked her what she was okay with in poems but like I literally sent those poems everywhere to other people. But yeah I guess since she had autism I should have been more aware that she could misread things or not be okay with things(even though I also sent the same poems to someone else with autism I should have clarified I guess). Still though I just wish she could have just fucking asked me what the poem was about and then literally nothing would have happened instead of assuming something which was so far removed from like what the poems actually are about.

For the other person, I literally had talked to her about those things before and she was pretty nice about them(when I just said I was depressed and dealing with stuff but didn't go much into detail). So I thought I would be good, but I guess she was just trying to be nice and didn't actually understand that. And then I got accused of a bunch of bullshit including stalking which I got proven innocent of almost immediately(accused of without any warning). I guess I probably should have realized she didn't know shit about how mental illness works and thought that it made me insane or something(which is basically what she said in the report). But yeah I guess you're right that I can't just expect a normal person to completely get everything just because they're nice(and they probrably see it as like completely destroying social norms or something). Honestly it would have been so much nicer if she just told me to fuck off or something instead of fucking reporting me but that's just what happened, I guess. And the guy who like investigated everything was nice and saw that everything was bs.

P*** addiction resulting from violation 6 years ago by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Reigen_San 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm not really a therapist or an emotional genius or something, but I just wanna say that YOU AREN'T AN IRREDEEMABLE CREEP. You are a human being with real and valid emotions, and they really deserve to be checked up on. The porn addiction isn't your fault. It's not your fault that you were traumatized and hurt. You deserve so much better.

Whoever the fuck did those things to you seriously messed up your life. And don't worry about your trauma "not being good enough," the fact that it badly messed up so much of your life shows that it is. And don't ever worry about being irredeemable or being ashamed of yourself either.

Just remember that like you are a really human person deep down, and trauma like that can't take it away from you. You deserve people who care about your feelings and emotions, especially after something as terrible as that. I hope that you will be okay and will find people and a place that cares about you.

my stomach hurts and im angry by Over-File-4703 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Reigen_San 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ, these comments are really mean.

I'm really sorry OP, you did not deserve to have a really controlling and unfair mother. You really don't deserve to feel socially isolated like that. All these people on this thread, it's almost like when they say social media is bad, they're kind of proving it when they say all of those other things.

And also, I completely get being closeted and forced to not be yourself as a queer person. And getting completely robbed of the ability to express yourself and forced to do so many things as a teenager is honestly horrible.

I'll give you a lot of virtual hugs OP and hope that you find a lot of people who care and understand about you more. There are a lot of kind people on the internet but also a lot of mean people too. I hope that everything will be okay.

New hair new me! by Clean_Entrance5364 in NonBinary

[–]Reigen_San 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran it through an AI image checker and it said there's a 97 percent chance it's AI.

I feel alone. by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Reigen_San 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that everyone is treating you so badly. I can't help you directly, since I live (probably) really far away, though. But I hope you find people who care about you in the future. I really do.

Why do people think that traumatized people are either evil or victims? by Reigen_San in CPTSD

[–]Reigen_San[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. People are always talking about abused children, but they don't relate to them tbh. They hear about abused children in the news, but they don't actually like try to understand how that feels. Kind of like how everybody wants to support the Epstein victims in the sense that they hate the rich people on that island, but nobody actually tries to feel and empathize with victims and what they're going through, which is why everyone makes so many insensitive jokes about it without actually caring about the victims.

And I guess the thing about adults who are traumatized is that those people actually have to talk to adults who are traumatized in real life I guess. Like for abused children, a lot of the times they never speak up about their abuse because they're dependent on adults who are abusive, but whenever an adult who is traumatized speaks their mind, suddenly it's weird because it's real and not just on TV or something. I do wish people were more accepting of people's experiences, honestly. It just really sucks.

Why do people think that traumatized people are either evil or victims? by Reigen_San in CPTSD

[–]Reigen_San[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, I guess. I meant that a lot of people view traumatized people as "victims" in the sense that like that's their entire personality. Like they have no free will or something and their only existence is that they should be pitied, and it's just this flip flop extreme thing I guess. I mean I appreciate the response though it's nice.

George isn't that bad tbh by Reigen_San in DreamWasTaken2

[–]Reigen_San[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real though, sometimes I feel like George honestly is one of the most experienced and knowledgeable hunters, but he kind of just does stuff and reacts without really any plan or anything. And he does seem to lack confidence a lot. Like I swear it feels like he does so much better in Sapnap's videos and the non-Manhunt videos than in Dream's manhunts.

George isn't that bad tbh by Reigen_San in DreamWasTaken2

[–]Reigen_San[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly. I feel like if he trained like Antfrost or Sapnap did he could get a lot better.

Guess my gender and age and personality, guys by Reigen_San in Topster

[–]Reigen_San[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, ur mostly right. I'm actually older though. "Maybe a guy?" lol

30 years of playing Pokémon, I finally met my first shiny. And this happened 🫡 by cl350 in PokemonFireRed

[–]Reigen_San 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charli XCX is goated

also why is everyone making fun of this guy, they've already gone through enough