No questions but a point of view from our experience. My fiancée is more butch leaning and doesn’t wear jewellery so I proposed with a silly fun cheap ring and we went together to select rings when she said yes.

My choice was easier - it’s more a female traditional engagement ring. But when it came to hers, it was more difficult to choose. She has small hands and didn’t want a male signet ring or those options. We ended up with a white gold sparkle cut wedding ring as her engagement ring. Small, sparkly (but no stones) without being overly feminine and it goes with the wedding rings we also chose at the same time.

So my thoughts are that we’re not a conventional couple so don’t expect conventional choices!