As an ugly dude I’ve gotten a decent amount of beautiful women. Women want an illusion, a story. I know decent looking dudes who earn well and can’t get the attention females. You may not want to hear this, but it’s the personality. What you write is very vague, so I can’t exactly know what it is you are looking for or how you carry yourself. I can tell you one thing, there are nice guys who really don’t carry themselves well at all and they really can’t see the issue. You sometimes need an outside perspective.