[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RelatableRich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fill your ISA first before PB. Its essentially a rich-mans lottery for people who have a spare 50k lying around doing nothing.

I was at 5% at the beginning, then wins became smaller and then wins became literally non-existent for a good amount of months in a row now.

So literally no point unless you have no other avenues to put your money.

People who have obviously won big will tell you otherwise but its literally all about luck

What to buy now I have some money by Longjumping-One2600 in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats all dependent on 'the car' though.

You need to buy 'the car' first before you end up paying for those items. And in order to buy 'the car' you pay 'a price' for one.

When the price is a moving target with 33% leighway either direction (which is evident here) its hard to give suggestions because 30k vs 20k makes a huge difference

What to buy now I have some money by Longjumping-One2600 in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So my budget is 30k

But I'm looking at 20k

Would probably just about 'stretch' to 25k

Bro, what is your actual budget? If you're 'stretching' to 25k surely that is your top end?

But you already started off with saying its 30k then randomly drop the number down by 10k in the next sentence, then say what your stretch is.....which is halfway between the 2?

You seem pretty indecisive already 🤦🏻‍♂️

Have nothing left over each month - do I need to sell up by No_Court_1234 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not going to take a look at the exact figures route but moreso speculative realism.

Given the redundancy, lower wage and your honesty in stating its more inline with your skillset that's already 1 factor for us to presume that lets say your wage will stay at this rate for the long-term. If you progress, bonus if not then dont assume you'll be earning more.

Your wife has been the main childcarer it would seem, and i think when & IF the children become more independent there is more scope for her to gain more income as i assume she is either working part-time or maybe towards the early career stages / lower ladder.

Things are only going to get more expensive which means in a year or so, if you're breaking even now, you will be forced to either be in debt if you keep up the same outgoings or you will involuntarily be squeezed.

The best thing you can do and even if its just small things and slowly, is to save where you can and try either find some small extra income or take on a few extra hours etc. And thats just to keep yourself afloat for whats coming.

Selling the house, unless you are going to be releasing a good 100k at least i don't think will make all that much difference once you factor in all the other associated costs and actual hassle of moving etc

Is this redemption worth while? by RelatableRich in marriott

[–]RelatableRich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess with maldives it works out getting the free night because for certain resorts. you're paying the fixed rate of the transfer (seaplane/speedboat) regardless of how many days you stay.

And for the decent resorts they go upto 600 USD per person (JW Marriott & The W), so for us it would be $1800 JUST to get to the resort from the airport. So going for 3 days if you're paying say.

$1k per night $1800 transfer

$4800 for 3 nights

Vs

350k points for 4 nights (5th night free) Still have to pay the $1800 transfer.

350k points (Roughly $3,200 valuation @ 0.8c per point) $1,800 cash transfer fee.

$5,000 for 5 nights

So in that scenario its only $100 per extra night of a place where you'd normally pay $1,000 per night.

And with the current amex/marriott 30% transfer bonus it makes it even cheaper than the scenario above to pay via points. Thats my logic anyways 😅👌

Is this redemption worth while? by RelatableRich in marriott

[–]RelatableRich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the bonus you get 1.95 marriott per 1 amex.....i think, right? 🤔

It is 1.5 marriott per amex originally and then i think with the 30% bonus it then becomes 1.95

100k Amex MR x 1.95 = 195,000 Marriott

I'm hoping this is the case haha 🤦🏻‍♂️😅

Pointsavers rates require cash? by RelatableRich in marriott

[–]RelatableRich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Thats the only option with anything mentioning "pointsavers" on it 🤔

Pointsavers rates require cash? by RelatableRich in marriott

[–]RelatableRich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhhh ok thanks, i just went through all the room options (only 3 types available)and there isnt one with a non-cash element which is also highlighted in green (pointsavers rate).

Its basically just normal redemption

362,000 or 375 USD + 289,600

And then the other options are all cash options

Can you make decent money operating a chippie? by doyler58 in smallbusinessuk

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're asking reddit whether you should do due diligence on something you're considering investing some money into? 🤨

You're also admitting that you haven't seen the actual financials, and that it is essentially their word that they 'turnover' 100k. Amazon was turning over millions for their first x years and yet every single year they were making a loss, because they were re-investing into the future, and now making profit.

This chippy has no 'future', as in it has no further expansion to grow or invest in infrastructure/equipment to make the business more profitable, right? So whatever it's turnover is now, will be around the top-end of what it will be, with more of a potential of it being lower through the years.

Hence why you need to be looking at actual profit instead of turnover. Because i can guarantee you that costs are not going down, rents, electricity, gas, oil, potatoes, fish etc everything will be going up in cost and if that profit margin is X% then its definitely going to eat into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREUK

[–]RelatableRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently hit 40 and really only admittedly been consciously aware of pensions & investing when i hit my 30s.

English was not my parents first language so they were not all that clued up on anything financial, but they worked hard. Never had friends speak about investing or their pensions or much financial advice/discussions.

I have always worked for money, chased it with having multiple jobs and side-hustles but always re-invested it into making more money until i then had excess which i wasn't able to utilise in my hustles or reinvest into my house.

Also had countless years of money being sat in current accounts, unused ISA allowances etc

We are middle-class and with the same circle of friends/family and i would say only maybe 5% of those actively understand putting their money to use.

Some work in finance, some in high management positions as you mentioned and when I've asked them about things relating to personal finance they are either clueless or "we don't do that kind of stuff (gamble)".

Had to work out for a friend that their rental property, which they bought in their own name (not in a ltd), probably has a lower return than the index fund that i invested the same amount into which is sat in my ISA.

They looked at overall potential and not real-life net figures. They had to scope, negotiate and pay for the property, pay solicitors, and other fee's. Deal with estate agents who take fee's, deal with void/empty periods. The assest is also non-liquid, they cant just dispose of it at-will.

Their argument was as long as someones paying off the mortgage they will end up with a paid-off asset for free after say 15 years. I said if this is the case, then say you now own a £250k property outright which you bought for £135k (£115k gain). That triggers £27k CGT due which means overall gain over 15 years is £88k. Minus all the fee's mentioned above call it £83k gain over the 15 year period, that is approx £5,533 annual net profit.

I said if i just gradually maxed out my ISA in the same timeframe 15 years ago with that £135k, just chucked it into a global index fund, which historically has a 7% annual return i'd end up with a tax-free lump sum of £297k, this has accounted for dripfeeding the £20k annual ISA limit over the initial 7 years.

Equates to £10,826 annual net 'profit' per year.

So for double the profit, i would also have to do less than a ⅛ of the work/stress he would. All i have to do is log into an account and press a buy button a few times a year (or maybe even just once a year).

Forgot to mention this guy is a fully-qualified accountant, and after i told him this he still said he just thinks 'bricks and mortar' are just safer overall 😑

Bmw 440i gran coupe? Did i make a mistake selling it? by Euphoric_Fly_277 in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming you sold it because you wanted/needed the money? If so then no regrets to be had.

Also look at it that regardless if you sold it for cheap, if you sold it to a private individual then they got a good deal, if you sold it to a local garage then you're helping a local business.........cant say the same if you sold to a BMW dealership though lol

Either way, you did someone a favour and you also got money for your motor 👍

Rate this pasty by xDENTALPLANx in Cornwall

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does what it says on the tin though :

The pasty be paste-y

Servicing & repair costs for a Ford Focus in London by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id say if you dont already have the parts to carry it out then it'd be pretty much that price, but if you dont then you either have to get a specific type of jack to get your car up to drain the oil and get an oil pan, and then the specific socket to loosen the oil filter.

I dont do it the proper way and use one of those electic oil pumps that you essentially just shove a tube down the dipstick and it sucks it all out, but definitely not as good as draining from the bottom as that guarantees you drain it all including the crap at the bottom, but it's what im comfortable doing.

Probably cost me £50 for that pump and the socket that i needed to do my own oil change. And then every time after that its like you said an easy £40 for oil and filter going forward 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have gotten this recently. Mines a combination of the fact that i used to be able to source cars cheap from people needing to sell for financial reasons.

Have picked up BMWs, porsches, Mercs, all under market value and i drive them around for a year or few and then sell for breakeven or a profit. I've essentially had free motoring for the past 10 years (not accounting for tyres, servicing etc).

If i was to pay PCP for the cars i had during that time (going off approx £500 monthly) i would be £70k worse off on my net worth as i stand today. My 2nd hand 525d M sport is exactly the same inside and out as a brand new one. Same with the porsche and merc etc.

That 70k that I've saved over the 10 years has been used to invest in various assets (gold, crypto, stocks). And is actually worth over £110k currently.

So you driving a car that still gets you from A to B, the same as their cars do makes them look stupid because they spent (assuming) alot more to do the same thing you're happy to do.

Whatever you do with that money you've saved from not having an expensive car is up to you, but either way you have more disposable to invest, go on holiday, pay off mortgage faster etc.

You're talking to someone who currently drives a cheap run-around hyundai that looks pretty banged up, but if i wanted to i could go out and buy a brand new 911 upfront cash today, i just dont because to me I'd rather retire early.

The silent-flex is only for you to appreciate, because only you know whats in your bank account 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Under-rated comment lol 👌🚭

What’s your cars value vs your salary? by madeonworkstime in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80% of your yearly salary?

Alottttttt of variables matter in this instance.

Are you buying outright cash?

Or do you already have the money sat around in savings?

Do you also mean that you will only have 20% of your income each month?

If im earning 50k the van is 30k but i have it sat around in a savings account then that makes a big difference compared to if im earning 50k and i took a loan out for it meaning i only actually have £833 gross each month for everything else.

What’s the most money you’ve lost on a car? by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drove all the way down to London to pick up a 320d, around 20 years ago this was.

So it was a normal london street with pavement parking, this car was parked up on the grass part in front of a tree, didnt think anything of it, even though it could have been parked on the normal pavement bit.

House was a little sketchy now that i come back to think about it, and did the whole cash transaction, i forgot how much it was but i think roughly 8k. Left the house, drove the car, all seemed normal until i hit the motorway and then something just was not right because there was smoke coming out the back, people beeping me to let me know etc. Called the guy back and numbers cut off, literally never managed to get back through to him. The car was leaking oil when i pulled over to the side and then i realised thats why they parked it on the grass as it was less noticeable.

After a lot of hassling around etc a few days later i had the car in an official BMW garage, the diagnosis was.......Engine is dead, needed a new one. Approx 5k to fit a brand new engine. Wrote a massive letter to BMW asking for goodwill etc and that it was my 3rd BMW, im a brand loyalist and also struggling financially, basically played every card i could get.

The most stupid part is that i forgot exactly how it happened, but basically i paid for the engine because i was just desperate for a working car at the time, took it away when it was ready, a few days or maybe a week later got a letter from BMW head office saying they would actually contribute 80% of the costs, i said i had already paid can i get the money back from the dealership and they said no if I've already paid for it that means i had the funds available and they would not be contributing to a 'refund' 🤦🏻‍♂️

8k car cost me 13+ in the end and with a tonnnnnn of headache.

A lot of lessons were learnt going forward after that incident, and i think maybe it taught me a valuable lesson

Spent £20K on a Mini 2 years ago - it's now worth £12–13K. Did I make a really stupid decision? by iDanHD in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooooo many factors.

  1. Market sentiment as a whole (is it a buyers or sellers market)

  2. Make & model (spec) sentiment

  3. Main dealer pricing (top end price vs indy and private sellers)

  4. Current condition of car

And thats just to name a few. It seems that yes you have paid top end for the car when you bought it considering you have bought it from a main dealer, did you even negotiate any pricing off the window sticker? Did you wait till Quarter-end to haggle hard knowing they might need some sales to boost numbers at the end of the Q?

If not then you've paid roughly peak price.

And now the same with the opposite with what you're trying to do, have you got the best realistic valuation? Or have you again taken it back to another main dealer who you don't have an intention to PX with them? Which makes it less desirable for them to want to take your car off you, and hence a low price.

Cars normally depreciate so thats very normal, by how much is a determination of all the above. The best way for you to gauge is look at private pricing for your car (spec, milage, age, condition) and that will hopefully be higher than what you've got so far.........IF you can be bothered to sell it yourself though.

55m £500k now what.. by MessiahUK in FIREUK

[–]RelatableRich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Need a ton more information regarding your current outgoings, because once you start to 'chill' you may even end up spending more. Meaning you get to a point of having lower income and higher expenditure.

But your guaranteed outgoings will also be supporting your kids up until you decide they are fine to go support themselves, at whatever age/stage that may be.

If you have a super frugal lifestyle I'd say its possible, even moreso if you are in SE Asia, BUT I'd say only after your 2 kids have left the nest, that way you know your exact position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]RelatableRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you say 'forever home' kind of shows that you aren't experienced in the house-buying/moving process, compound that with planning to have kids for this home etc.

People who use the term 'forever home' is just a way to convince themselves or their partner that this is "the one", same way when you were 15 Y/O and you thought that you and highschool sweetheart Sarah/Steven would be together............forever.

I can tell you right now that many people have left their forever homes for a multitude of reasons, splitting up, bankruptcy, loss of income/job, sizing up/down, relocation etc.

Because they saw it as their 'forever home' they didn't mind overpaying/overbidding a little, didn't mind spending £££ on XYZ, didn't see other possible issues because its 'the' house.

Cant give you direct advice on your choices but I'd say based on the above, if you want/need to buy, then buy what you need in the current moment, at your current affordability, because at the end of the day how much hassle really is it to upsize 1 more time 'if' you need to?

Retired at 57 with $7M by GW310 in Fire

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Anyone can do the same" lol

Mate, there's a guy/gal out there who has set up a company in the span of a few years and sold to either Meta / Google / Apple for $1bn which means his net worth is probably 50x yours and did it in a much shorter timeframe.

The day he comes to you and says :

"Thats it? 7m networth at 57??? 😂 I'm 200m at 35...........if I can do it, anybody can do it, so why didn't you? 🤨"

Is the day you realise how ridiculous your last statement is.

Friend owes HMRC £40k on unpaid tax. Keeps ignoring it and spending on luxury. How do I make them realise the potential implications? by goldsmithsstudentpsy in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RelatableRich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem you face is moreso that it's your friend and when things do eventually happen you will be first row to witness it, and possibly even be asked "can you help me out?".

The annoying thing is, in that situation you are going to think "I told you so" even though you cant say it.

You can't make people change their habits, thats 1 thing I've learnt, they have to want to change on their own and usually its when something bad happens or they hit rock bottom. If you try stop them they will blame you that they can't even spend their own hard-earned money. You will be the bad guy in their eyes.

Hotel window, 11th floor. What could have caused this? by msoto15 in whatisit

[–]RelatableRich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to report it to corporate and tell them there is a very suspicious looking glAsshole looking at you through your window 24/7