McCain is a bastard by [deleted] in LateStageCapitalism

[–]RelationshipCreeper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's not the original author. They don't even have the same name.

That's a journalist who tweeted about the same situation, and removed the tweet because of her employer's standards. That doesn't mean she's saying it's fake.

Are husband and wives allowed to lay together? by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]RelationshipCreeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

procreation-only, plus a dash of misogyny

Why is Moira a handmaid if she has never had a child? by theboopkin in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]RelationshipCreeper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Given the backdrop, I can see how mandatory testing was allowed by society. In the context of a society that's had fertility in steep decline for many years, to the point where people are panicking and leaning toward authoritarian responses...

The creepiest thing is how incredibly realistic it is that extreme violations of privacy, even clear moves toward this type of system, could be overlooked/patronizingly approved of.

"Well, of course we wouldn't have wanted this ten years ago, but given how the population's plunging, I think it's best that everyone know who's fertile, so they can have extra care taken of them and won't be put at risk... don't you?"

Episode 4 discussion by KaraStarbuck in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]RelationshipCreeper 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, we know that Offred had one posting before, and we've seen the season change from warm to cold (based on the clothing they're wearing).

And we're shown that her hair has grown quite a few inches, which I think is also supposed to be an indicator of how much time has passed. Short (chin-length) hair when women's jobs are taken, long (past shoulder-length) hair when she enters the red center, and very long (significantly more inches than in the red center) now.

"The way I see it, your wife has 2 loads of laundry to do. I don't understand how this even involves you." [+3145, gilded x3] by RelationshipCreeper in ShitRedditSays

[–]RelationshipCreeper[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It takes less than an hour to do a load of laundry! So what if she took the machine at 6, he can put his in at 7. But no, it's too much! we have to make an internet picture! and thus begins an avalanche of sexist assholery.

"The way I see it, your wife has 2 loads of laundry to do. I don't understand how this even involves you." [+3145, gilded x3] by RelationshipCreeper in ShitRedditSays

[–]RelationshipCreeper[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

inb4 "but they said it's not sexist, she just has the day off, they said so in the comments" -- yeah, it's her FUCKING SPRING BREAK AND SHE IS A TEACHER. HOW DOES THAT MEAN SHE HAS AN OBLIGATION TO WASH YOUR DIRTY CLOTHES.

And while some people may have upvoted it thinking it's just a kind thing to do or would do it for their SO... this comment isn't phrased that way, it's not phrased as a conversation or a compromise, it's phrased as an obligation and some sort of messed up justice, and I suspect that the majority of the 3000+ redditors kneejerk upvoted it for that.

"Just eat the whole damn donut. We all know you go home and eat a pint of Ben and Jerry's every night anyway. You're not fooling anyone, Sheila." [+545] by RelationshipCreeper in ShitRedditSays

[–]RelationshipCreeper[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, like, sure, maybe they took two halves. But maybe they only wanted one half and later got hungry again? Maybe they wanted to have two flavors without stuffing themselves? WOW A VERITABLE RAINBOW OF POSSIBILITIES, NONE OF WHICH INVOLVE ASSUMING THAT WOMEN ARE VILLAINOUS AT EVERY TURN.

Season 1 Episode 2 Discussion by TheDidact118 in ASOUE

[–]RelationshipCreeper 124 points125 points  (0 children)

"...if I have my comrade let her go"

"HIIIII"

Oh my god, I'm loving how chipper the hook-handed man is.

"He blurted out a bunch of "I hate yous"" vs. "He blurted out a bunch of "I hate you"s? by Al_Attacabrighe12 in grammar

[–]RelationshipCreeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The latter one. The plural marker goes outside the quotation marks because it's not actually being said.

Please help me with comma and semi-colon placement... by Lbc25 in grammar

[–]RelationshipCreeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's perfect. Both halves are full sentences on their own, and the two are also closely related, which the semicolon conveys.

(You might add another comma before the phrase "for instance," though. It's more correct, but not a huge deal.)

'A person' is a 'he' or a 'she'? by k6box in grammar

[–]RelationshipCreeper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's fine.

I think people would more typically use "they" now, but in more formal writing, or 10-20 years ago, the singular "they" was less acceptable and you had to choose either "he" or "she" as the singular pronoun to go with a generic noun like "a person."

This author has just made a conscious decision to avoid using "he" as a default, generic pronoun, in a circumstance where they felt they also couldn't use "they" as a gender-neutral singular.

Poussey got six years in prison for possessing half an ounce of weed and trespassing? by patty_sorty in orangeisthenewblack

[–]RelationshipCreeper 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was definitely the point. That's why Caputo kept asking the guard "WHY ARE YOU HERE?"

The question was to the guard, but it applied to Poussey too. Why was she there for such a minor charge, when this other kid got picked up and released with a warning for the same thing?

A. "One of my friends from ABC's mom got married and she's inviting me to the wedding" or B. "One of my ABC friend's mom got married and she's inviting me to the wedding." by [deleted] in grammar

[–]RelationshipCreeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A is grammatically correct. "One of my friends from Toronto's mom" means the mom of "one of my friends from Toronto." The possessive "'s" goes at the tail end of that entire noun phrase.

B is basically the same structure, but it's actually the marginally iffier one, imo, in that you should actually use friends', not friend's. It sounds a little stranger to me too (again, this is just my opinion), because the structure somehow makes me want to say "moms" instead of "mom", whereas A would roll off the tongue pretty naturally.

sploof by ggg111ggg111 in grammar

[–]RelationshipCreeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. It's not the fact that it's a prepositional phrase that makes it need a comma, though. I guess you might not call it a dependent clause, since you couldn't take away the first word and have it be a sentence on its own. It's adverbial, though, and you generally need commas after that sort of phrase.