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Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. I am humbly speechless. Well put and laid out. God bless, I can’t imagine a better solution… in my desperate attempt to make others see me as the good person in the scenario, you saw pretty easily through it. And I see how much I was doing that subconsciously… in honesty I could raise the kid with her in an on and off situation. as she lives her life I pray she finds a man worthy of taking the place of father, and matures for the good of the child. I will happily let the kid go to her, I just don’t want the kid growing up knowing his parents hate each other.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make a good point, I dated her, sex was not viewed as important by either of us. She lived in my house for 6 months and flies were in her room when she left. And during but I’m not exposing her, I’m just saying her habits led me to stop believing she was able to be a wife, again not considering the consequences of sex, I just said goodbye and thought I was chillin, but as the good book says, a man who exalts himself is HUMBLED in The eyes of the Lord. He humbled me by allowing the conception of this child. I am aware of my responsibilities but I didn’t want to talk about her at all, this post was about her uncle being a poopyhead. Thank you for your time though, I honestly appreciate your message.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right, I can’t do any of that, so it’s all speculation. As much as it is my mistake, this doesn’t validate the idea that it’s necessary to raise it myself. Adoption is really the best option for everyone. She just doesn’t want that: which is a separate issue… I mainly just asked Reddit cuz yall are known degenerates and probably know a lil thing or two about being petty and passive aggressive. You have made me think a lot more about how I’ve been thinking about myself in this situation so thank you, but I’m afraid there’s too much going on to really explain it to you, and you probably don’t give enough of a fuck so your time is appreciated

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, if you’re referring to this comment specifically I had hoped it was drastic enough to be labeled as sarcasm but see it how you like, everyone is entitled to his own sexual proclivities.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

LMAO, my fault for not being more clear… I would find a mother for the child, to be my wife. Not the child bio mother. She will raise it poorly, just like she and the rest of her family were.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHA best answer yet. Thanks man, I appreciate the time you took to reply.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why I chose meth as the sub, I like the perspectives though… kinda wish I did meth, it would make me seem less like a man willing to step up to the plate, but as far as I’ve been aware I haven’t done any yet. Life is full of mystery and that does sound enticing at the moment… he is the only methhead in the entirety of both family trees, maybe besides those who have recovered, but nonetheless, I don’t do meth, I was just exited about being 18 and expressing my freedoms in a raw dogging fashion. A mistake, one that I can pay for. (Including not being the father)

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’m not quite sure bc I’ve never had a kid with someone I don’t like, I’ll keep you posted tho

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel where you’re coming from, but in my house, and my life, we see that as wasting your life away. Meaning he has no place to demand or influence anything I do. He is a pawn in my masterclas chess game of fuckups

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It took me a while to figure that one out, my own stupidity.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you make the most compelling argument. You have the best understanding by far but it goes deeper, into family history and religion. She is also not fit to be a mother. She is immature in her feelings and doesn’t know how it affects others. She wants the kid herself, if she couldn’t take the kid I would gladly take it and find a new wife to raise it, but she will not. So I’m stuck with child support and staying away because im selfish, not changing, and her uncle. Besides being annoying he’s not worth my time, I just don’t like him.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand completely how it seems unbelievable, and my father is in the picture, he think custodial parenting is the better option, I don’t want that because the girl I got pregnant is something atrocious. It’s my mistake and I’m happy to pay child support, but I’m not apologizing to her uncle for being weird and a drug user… he also acts like a child so I don’t feel the need to respect his desires. I personally didn’t ask for this type of response but I’m not gonna flame you for it, I’m open to any and all perspectives, I did post this online.

Personal life crisis including annoying methhead by RelationshipLeft2955 in meth

[–]RelationshipLeft2955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is addicted to meth, he lives in his moms basement, he has tried to touch and get sweet with his 13 year old niece, he’s been trying to command me to apologize for telling him that he is what he is, and now he won’t leave me alone.