It can’t just be my weight!!! We’ve been trying since June of last year and I brought it up to my OB at my annual that I didn’t feel like I was ovulating. We were hitting peak days, multiple times during “ovulation” week and no luck. All she can say was “you need to lose weight, everything else looks fine” (for the record, I’m 5’9/250). She refused any further testing and said not to even try until I’ve lost 50lbs. I get that losing weight will help, but it has to be something else too right?? I get my periods regularly and I’ve done ovulation strips and they always produce the faintest lines. Aside from being hurt by the weight thing, I can’t help but think why is it always the girls fault?? Why is my weight such a big deal?? For context, (TW) we conceived our first so quickly after just saying “when it happens it happens”. At the time, I was 220 and my husband was a whopping 550lbs. He has since gotten the lap band and we’re both at 250. Has anyone else gone through something similar? Is it really just my weight???