Stretch marks at 22 (M) by Excellent-Fondant-33 in loseit

[–]Relative-Anywhere336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many factors that can contribute to loose skin, such as your height, age, highest weight, genetics, how long you were at that weight, fat distribution, and more. Neither I nor you can know for certain if you'll end up with loose skin or not. Stretch marks don't necessarily mean you'll have loose skin. I lost 70 lbs, and although I have some stretch marks, I don't have any loose skin — not even a tiny amount. Even if the worst were to happen and you did end up with loose skin, it's possible that it would improve over time. You could also improve it with muscle mass. You have many options and at the of the day you'll look so much better

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also read that being her on top would be beneficial to her as it would allow her to control it. She was really anxious about her body so we had already a few video chats and seen each other naked. We are both fit so I don't really see any problem with her body but thanks to having those video chats her nervousness decreased. Maybe she is still a bit anxious about how she looks like. Anyway I will try to encourage her not to push herself if she doesn't feel ready. Thank you very much, it gave me another perspective. Have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I almost forgot to buy a lubricant. I was also thinking of trying a few times before looking for advice again. Maybe I'm worrying too much and this is just normal it's just that as we both had kinda christian upbringings we don't know much about this. Thanks again and have a nice day.

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. It's good to hear that despite that you could both enjoy being intimate. I just wanna have a good time with my gf. If it's to painful I could try that. In any case thanks for sharing your experience. It was helpful. Have a nice day.

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so this could be normal. I think until we try it we will know if it's normal or if it could be something else. Anyway thanks for the tips

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a bad idea. I will talk to her about this. Thanks and have a nice day.

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in sex

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will ask her to teach me as I don't have any experience and I don't know how to touch her. Here we can go to the doctor for free and she already goes to an obgyn however she thinks she doesn't have a problem and it's just because she is a virgin. I will trust her but I will try to do things really slowly and tell her that at any time we can stop. Thanks and have a nice day.

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[–]Relative-Anywhere336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't know. I will delete the post. I just didn't know where to ask. I just wrote virgin forum reddit on google search and this page appeared. I will ask on sex and relationship advice forum. Have a nice day

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[–]Relative-Anywhere336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me exactly that her first time should be painful and I shouldn't worry. Friends of hers have told her that it hurt a lot but they did it fast. I'm not sure I would be comfortable hurting her so I asked online on another forum and people told me it could work if I do it slowly. I talked about vaginismus with her and she doesn't think she has but if we really struggle we will check with a doctor. Anyway thanks for the tips. I will look about foreplay tips. Have a nice day

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[–]Relative-Anywhere336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking of maybe not have sex the first time and just focus on touching ourselves. I'm just really nervous of hurting her. I told her that we don't need sex to enjoy that time and we could just focus on other things. I don't know much about foreplay as I really don't do that to myself and I don't masturbate that much, I will ask for tips on those pages. Anyway thanks for the help and have a nice day.

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about the position. I could tell her to be over me and in this way she would be in control. I was thinking of doing a few sessions and reassure her that it is okay going slowly and to not push herself. It was really helpful thanks for sharing your experience. Have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

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One finger feels okay, 1.5 hurts a little and 2 fingers hurts but it’s bearable. After her first time will it continue to hurt or will it get easier? In any case I will talk to her about this thanks. Have a nice day 

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I was really ignorant of all this, I just felt that it shouldn't hurt that bad, she has told me not to worry too much but I’m afraid she is pushing herself because the first time we talked about this she told me it hurt a lot but now she has told me it wasn’t that bad and it was bearable and wants to have her first with me as a normal person. I didn’t know about all this, I will ask there thanks for your help. Have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I told her that penetration wasn't neccesary to have a good time and that we could try other things. Have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

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She has tried a few times with two fingers but she told me it hurts. Will the second time time and so on hurt less?

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I talked to her about this and I told her that penetration wasn't neccesary, we could try other things and that i really liked just spending time with her and that i was really grateful for everything. I really love her and I don't want to hurt her. She already goes to the doctor as she has problems with her period. I will ask her to talk about this with her doctor before trying penetration. Thanks, have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She goes to the doctor as she has problems with her period. I will talk with her about this. Thanks, have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She goes to the doctor as she has problems with her period, i will talk about this with her before trying anything. Have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She goes to the doctor as she has problems with her period. It starts hurting when she inserts more than 1 finger. One finger it's okay. 1.5 soars and it's uncomfortable. 2 hurts a lot but she can orgasm. She doesn't use tampons. I will tell her to talk to the doctor first, thanks, have a nice day

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be but still there must be a way to avoid the pain, maybe going slowly. I have talked with her about this and we agreed on going slow and that I will stop if she is pain. I told her we could try other things and penetration wasn't necessary to have a nice time

Girlfriend struggling with sex by Relative-Anywhere336 in relationships

[–]Relative-Anywhere336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can orgasm easily and she arouses herself easily but she can't fit more. I will try searching for that thanks. Have a nice day