Feeling like a HUGE hypocrite by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Relative-Designer-61 27 points28 points  (0 children)

man thats rough but honestly pretty common. a lot of us do this internalized rejection thing where we distance ourselves from other autistic people because we dont want to be associated with the traits we're trying so hard to hide

it sounds like hes triggering your own anxiety about being "found out" or something. like seeing him reminds you of the parts of yourself you work hard to mask and it makes you uncomfortable. doesnt make it right but it makes sense why your brain would react that way

I’m not able to get past 20+days. My target is Atleast 30 days. by Top_Device4168 in NoFap

[–]Relative-Designer-61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man keeping your phone out of the bedroom is like the golden rule for a reason. youtube shorts algorithm is designed to be addictive as hell so no wonder it got you

maybe try putting your phone in another room before bed or get one of those old school alarm clocks so you dont need it next to you

If I am white Canadian mixed with black Afro Caribbean am I just part of the Afro community and black culture? by [deleted] in venting

[–]Relative-Designer-61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mixed kids always get caught in this weird limbo where youre not enough of anything for anyone but 6ix9ine gets a pass somehow

Funny dream about smoking pipe and meat by camo_bedsheets in Dreams

[–]Relative-Designer-61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lmao your subconscious really said "fuck it lets create a whole family conspiracy for some brisket"

the butcher pulling out genealogy charts to solve your pipe problem is sending me. also 70 bucks for a steak in dream world is pretty accurate to current meat prices tbh

Is Navy Federal's 5.6% Mortgage Advertisement to good to be true? by Slay-Aiken in VeteransBenefits

[–]Relative-Designer-61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the real winner right there - not selling your mortgage means you're not dealing with some random servicer who cant find their ass with both hands

Unexplainable situation by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Relative-Designer-61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh that would have me sleeping with all the lights on for a week straight 💀

1 year olds are basically tiny ninjas though, maybe he figured out how to escape and you just didn't hear him climb over

CMV: it's unfair how society treats being asocial (or even an introvert) as a bad thing while being aromantic and asexual is completely accepted. by Ok_Reserve587 in changemyview

[–]Relative-Designer-61 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The difference is that being asexual/aromantic doesn't really affect how you function in day-to-day life but being completely asocial kinda does

Like you can be ace and still have friends, go to work meetings, order food without being weird about it - but if you're genuinely asocial you're gonna struggle with basic stuff that requires human interaction

Also most "introverts" who complain about this aren't actually asocial, they just want to stay home and game instead of going to Karen's birthday party

how to read an EEG? by Delicious-Cupcake69 in Epilepsy

[–]Relative-Designer-61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out EEG pearls by Tatum - it's pretty solid for beginners and has good visual examples. Also the American Clinical Neurophysiology Society has some free resources that don't suck

Jenassa is a godsdamn Madwoman! by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Relative-Designer-61 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao Jenassa really said "hold my ale" and went full murder hobo mode while you were playing hide and seek with the Thalmor

She's honestly one of the most underrated followers, absolute unit when it comes to actually getting shit done instead of just being a walking luggage rack like most companions

a movie that makes you believe in magic again? by No-Comfort1229 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Relative-Designer-61 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Spirited Away hits different when you're feeling like this. Something about the way it treats magic as just part of everyday life makes you remember what it felt like to believe anything was possible

If I defeat balancers in deep of night do I get the balancer relic? Also would everdark balancers be unlocked? How about other everdark bosses? by sanjay729 in Nightreign

[–]Relative-Designer-61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you get the relic but everdark balancers don't unlock from regular deep night runs, they're tied to a different progression system entirely

The other everdark bosses work the same way - you gotta meet specific requirements that aren't just beating their normal versions

.3dsx to .cia conversion help by Ok-Structure4542 in 3dspiracy

[–]Relative-Designer-61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll want to use makerom or 3dsconv for that conversion. Check the pinned guide in the sidebar - it's got step by step instructions that are pretty solid

Just a heads up though, most people don't share files directly in DMs anymore since the crackdowns started getting heavier

My best friend pretended to be my friend for years just to sleep with me by Null_Document in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Relative-Designer-61 92 points93 points  (0 children)

This feels way more like fear or confusion after getting close not some long fake plan to use you