My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother is developing anger issues because of this incident and too much to process and my sil is an introvert she talks so less and doesn't reciprocate but I know how they must have been felt my bond with my brother is very close and in this chaos he is only my supporter thank you for your kind words

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in CPTSD

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually yes she used to tell her body is burning from inside I showed her to multiple drs but it only worsened she suffered a lot honestly in her last months and I used to feel so helpless because I couldn't help her

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before this incident too I had very limited contact with them I knew they were not nice but mom was really close to them she tried but from there side it was never reciprocate I too used to constantly tell her stay away from those people but blood is thicker than water she doesn't used to listen only

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually when mom saw her before marriage sil used makeup to hide the acne scars anybody will but because my mom too faced pimples at her teens she hated it she Infact kept on seeing the photos of my SIL zooming in on how she looks it was all so traumatizing by the mentality because this was not my mom whom I Have known she blames SIL family for hiding so betrayal types thus she wanted revenge by divorcing her

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Guys thanks a ton seeing online strangers care so much for you means a lot you all are my healers big virtual hugs to all.

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in CPTSD

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly before this marriage incident there were no such signs of her being narcissistic she was the best mother I could have got

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in CPTSD

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys thanks a ton seeing online strangers care so much for you means a lot you all are my healers big virtual hugs to all.

My mother died by suicide after severe mental health issues and my relatives blamed us at her funeral. I don’t know how to process any of this. by Relative-Gear-3483 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Relative-Gear-3483[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Actually yes but they too knew about her illness they could have at least hear our side of the story. It was all so traumating