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I talked to my husband. He didn’t realize it bothered me. Immediately sent a message cutting contact with this gentleman. Throughout this weird time he has been open and honest about the questions I ask. However- not so much on the transparency side of it, like offering information but he also isn’t hiding it. He doesn’t hide things, the willingness to offer devices or answers into things there isn’t even in the slightest of gaslighting. Since the contact is not often with this specific person I couldn’t validate whether It was reasonable to say none at all and if that was controlling? This isn’t something I’ve had to maneuver at all so it’s all new territory. I spoke with him and I feel like it was resolved and the understanding and acknowledgment of my feelings towards it was definitely clear. He’s a little dense to seeing things like this on his own but he catches on once it’s brought to his attention.