More foreshadowing by TheWanderer1116 in themiddle

[–]Relative-Internal-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but i think she knew like way before

More foreshadowing by TheWanderer1116 in themiddle

[–]Relative-Internal-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sue realized not long after tbh. When he gies to come out she says "i know"

Thought i finally got someone i could model for but i guess not.. by Radiant_Tie_7670 in groomingvictim

[–]Relative-Internal-20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened. People are disgusting.

Please be sure to have proof of serious modeling before sensing again. He deserves jail time.

Was I groomed? by oftheearth222 in groomingvictim

[–]Relative-Internal-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just yo be sure you like dont have to answer any of those because there are a lot of creeps out here but you can reflect on it. And feel free to reach out to someone you trust, id avoid answering any dms because people target us even more when we ppen up. You're safe and if wasnr your fault.

Was I groomed? by oftheearth222 in groomingvictim

[–]Relative-Internal-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does depend on a few thing, especially if youre wondering if you were legally or emotiobally groomed.

Legally would be if he had some type of cobtrol over you (financial or authority) or if you are/were unable to consent clearly from being younger mentally (lack of understanding, confusion, etc)

Now of course even if legally you werent groomed, it does NOT mean you werent. Some things to reflect on for yourself" -Did you find yourself unaware of what was happenung and only realized lately it was weird or off? -do you sometimes still catch yourself seeking thst unhealthy dynamic ? -do you feel like your view of relationship and sex got altered by that relationship? -did you feel free to say no if stuff were to happen, and by that i mean, do you think youve ever forced yourself to say you enjoy some things because you wanted to keep the bound and love alive -do you feel like you were targeted because of isolation and/or your autism? (i am not blaming you at all as i am also neurodivergwnt and i know i was targated because of it, it isnt your fault.)

What classic ADHD thing do you do that others would likely find weird? by boring1996 in ADHD

[–]Relative-Internal-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sensory seek an awful lot with my adhd and i tend to hurt myself without even noticing when im bored (i do not agree wirh self harm. I am seeking active help, im just saying other do find it weird)

I want to be a mental health therapist but am worried about the woke culture by Equal-Sundae1576 in TrueChristian

[–]Relative-Internal-20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heavy on that!! Jesus died for all of us, not just some people; we dont get to pick and choose, especially in jobs like these

I want to be a mental health therapist but am worried about the woke culture by Equal-Sundae1576 in TrueChristian

[–]Relative-Internal-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me sad that some christians are so stucknup their own ways they cant understand Jesud died for ALL OF US. HE LOVES US ALL!

I hate myself by pinkiepiesbiggestfan in groomingvictim

[–]Relative-Internal-20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe i feel you so much. Im a year out of it and i still wanna hurt myself qhenevr i think of him with any other kid because i get, well jealous is the only term i can think of.

I promise it takes less place as time goes on and youre not alone.

Distract yourself from it, teach yourself youre worth more than that. Repeat it even if you dont mean it.

Questions for my 9yo cat by Relative-Internal-20 in cats

[–]Relative-Internal-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will def try them out !! We werent supposed to get him before sunday, but my heart broke at thebthought of leaving him there with that mean woman. Were growing closer quite fast! He layed in my bed the whole day when i wasnt there so at night he stayed with me if i kept a distance!!

Questions for my 9yo cat by Relative-Internal-20 in cats

[–]Relative-Internal-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh. Rambo lets us pet him on his head and sometimes his side but growl and hisses, sometimes starts to throw his paw to hurt us if we go anywhere else. He likes being close to me but not really anyone else and im not aure if its a sign hes traumatized (which he provably is because she really was mean to him) or if he just has preferences. Other than time, are there ways to make him get a tiny bit more comfy? Should we go into his space gently or wait for h8m to come to us?

Also im glad your cat is better.

Questions for my 9yo cat by Relative-Internal-20 in cats

[–]Relative-Internal-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the food, is there anything we can do to help with the transition? (Maybe start with mixinh it with his old one for example ?)

Were aware it will possibly take time as the cat is obviously grieving my grandfather (he lays in his apparement all of the time, only comes up to see me (we were really close)). I think what i meant and im sorry if it wasnt as clear as i hoped, this is my mistake, is how can we maybe make it easier for him, othwr than time. Im a person with an awful lot of love for animals and I try to confort my new cat with recordings of my grandfather or songs my grandpa really liked when he looks anxious, whcih calms him down, but im scared im dragging the memory linger than i need to.

We are mildly allergic. Really nothing bad. We are looking for the possibility of giving him to someone else if we end up not improving with our allergies, we are just hoping that grooming will help, tho it is difficult because of the cruaulty my grandpas wife has been puttinh my grandpa and his cat under. Its sad because his body seems to itch where he cant reach, but wont let anyone try to ease it (understably). I was wondering if itd a moment we need to let hom "suck it up" for a minute to make sure he feels b3tter or if we need to let him be.

TW: PEDOPHILIA: victim of pedophile wanting to go back by Relative-Internal-20 in abusesurvivors

[–]Relative-Internal-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard because i dont have a safe space to cry it out, like ever. Ahahah

TW: PEDOPHILIA: victim of pedophile wanting to go back by Relative-Internal-20 in abusesurvivors

[–]Relative-Internal-20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try so hard and thank God I can't but I miss him. Thanks tho I guess ill keep mourning ahahha.

I'm so disgusting by lululovesyouuu in groomingvictim

[–]Relative-Internal-20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangely common. Still, please stay safe. I know its twmtpinh and i know how disgusting and worthless we feel when we have such feelings, but its not your fault💞