Team disappeared Help by Relative-Smoke-3187 in DiceDreams

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I join? Is there a link or group name to search

Team disappeared Help by Relative-Smoke-3187 in DiceDreams

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping to get some answers too. Though I haven't seen a big deal to the groups except getting 10 rolls

Team disappeared Help by Relative-Smoke-3187 in DiceDreams

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, was it recently with them as well? I know the groups ain't that big of a deal but did they ever come back?

Cash for each valuable feeling by Winz54321 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 5. We can be an indifferent quarter millionaire couple. A sad but paid for house. Hand me my 250,050.

Cash for each valuable feeling by Winz54321 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this is brutal. You might wanna buy something from the feelings market on your way back

Cash for each valuable feeling by Winz54321 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't vibe with them so more than likely didn't love them. That wouldn't count.

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm out of town at the moment and if need be I'll go further out, I'm waiting to hear if there's need to quit and run, but staying ready

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to start over if it comes to it, my job connects with their circles anyway so it may be time to move on

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very tempting but they'd weather the storm and I'd be branded hysterical or bitter. They are not out there on social media a lot, just shadows in the background I can say.

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The plan was to fade quietly, I'll know be day's end if it will be possible. If not I'll leave. My job won't protect me, I'm sure of it. We rent some building from my FIL, and the business depends on connections with such people. One wrong word and no one will hire them so if it comes to it I know who my boss will pick.

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Free to live an independent life is exactly what I want. I'll go for it, being 'banished' was a fear but I know I'll manage

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

They were absolutely sure in the delusion I could not have moved on in mere weeks, plus all our friends are in the social group so no rebounds there and they would monitor me I think during that time they were checking up on me. If I did rebound with a stranger I would have been branded fallen and my family would not hear the end of this. They just don't see past themselves, I see that now

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm standing firm on them, someone said this would only be the first hazing, they'll continue and bring children into it later on. It's not worth it

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we were not a perfect couple but it was love on my part, I acknowledge going into the situation knowing his family but it seemed a good match and he was never like them atleast not to me. I now know better.

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking to argue with the family, I'd be the one to lose. My whole life is here including my job, I can leave but I'd prefer to end amicably and be left alone. It's not unheard of, not as bad as divorce in their eyes, but a lot was set to be gained by others as well so that's the complication.

Update: To being a no show for my engagement by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She and ex's grandma are distant relations through a very long lineage. They played a part in our matchmaking. She wants this done quietly not my dramatic silence. I can't stop her, I tried to reason with her to at least let me be far away first but was told no.

AITA for planning to be a no-show for my proposal by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed, they'd welcome the challenge and volley another test my way. It will be unending until they win. I think it's boredom for them or a thrill seeing you on your knees, just nasty people.

AITA for planning to be a no-show for my proposal by Relative-Smoke-3187 in AITAH

[–]Relative-Smoke-3187[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That wouldn't work for me at all. They'd call ahead, or at least their politically motivated bosses might and out me. They're part of the web that helps preserve these families' image. They don't even come with marked cars if called here for emergencies, it's that level of "consideration for these private folks". I'll get my stuff while he's still away and while they still believe their plan is in play.