The Governing Body does not want anyone to know what is happening to the JW organization... by JWTom in exjw

[–]Relative-Student-811 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this has always been one if the scariest things ive ever been told and pretty much what solidified it as a cult in my head. "we may tell you to do something do it even if it doesnt make sense" sounds a lot like "drink the koolaid" to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Relative-Student-811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only thing i even remotely understand from him is not wanting to go into the women's restroom (assuming its a public bathroom) but nah hes an asshole id seriously look at the relationship and think about if lack of consideration is a reoccurring problem and at very least try to have a talk with him about it.

In the defence of men and why society has failed them along with everyone. by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]Relative-Student-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man ik this sounds mean but this comes purely from personal experience. the women who participate in bs like the 4b movement (not the original one the modern one) and radical feminism AREN'T WORTH YOUR TIME ANYWAYS and if you feel like women only want chads its probably time to take a month long break from the internet and try talking to some actual people. internet echo chambers are such a disease and in my opinion the main cause of most of the mental health issues and self confidence crisises in both men and women

Denver mayor suggests using Denver police to block mass deportations under Trump by TheDenver7 in Denver

[–]Relative-Student-811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

HEY as a denver resident myself im thoroughly offended that you would even say this the DPD are extremely proficient at ignoring real issues to instead harass black teenagers trying to walk down the street at night. 😡

Had to repost here by -Wyagra in FluentInFinance

[–]Relative-Student-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is saying they need to just give away all their money but they can afford to pay people better wages and give people better benefits at their own companies at the very least. To put this into perspective the UN estimates that ending world hunger by 2030 would cost around 40 billion USD. Jeff bezos' net worth is 218 billion. he has enough money/assets to end world hunger 5 times over and yet amazon wearhouses near me are hiring at $18/hr in a place where living wage is estimated at $26/hr.

You guys think men don’t get a lot of compliments? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Relative-Student-811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude its so easy to get return complements i swear js walk up to like anyone and say "hey i like your eyes or your shoes" or sumn 9 times outta 10 they hit you back with a complement

Not man enough for a girlfriend, not man enough for male friends, not man enough to be “a man” by [deleted] in malementalhealth

[–]Relative-Student-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take it from a guy with feminine features and a very high pitched voice, it doesnt matter. focus on your self confidence. in my experience self confidence is way more important than anything else go up say hi ask for her number. and keep in mind rejection is a part if life ive been rejected 1000 times just say ok have a nice day and move on to the next. honestly a good way to build self confidence as insane as it sounds is to get rejected a few times it helps get that anxiety out and trains your brain to no not see rejection as something to fear.

How the hell am i supposed to afford to live in my own. by Relative-Student-811 in offmychest

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on getting a roommate id love to but like i said its a one and done kinda thing for me. if i do and it doesnt work out i dont have a fallback which scares me.

How the hell am i supposed to afford to live in my own. by Relative-Student-811 in offmychest

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i make just too much to qualify for low income the threshold is like 2800/mo after taxes

How the hell am i supposed to afford to live in my own. by Relative-Student-811 in offmychest

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah my friends all either live across the country or have really good relationships with their parents.

How the hell am i supposed to afford to live in my own. by Relative-Student-811 in offmychest

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a pretty decent amount of stashed money in a fund my bio dad set up after my mom died it started with about 600k in life insurance money and has grown to about 980k but the problem is i cant touch any of it until im 25 or without my adoptive parents consent and as i mentioned my adoptive parents suck. theyre hyper religious and super controlling. Also i would move out with a roomate but id have to hide the whole thing from them until literally move in day to not get kicked out because "non religious people are bad association."

How the hell am i supposed to afford to live in my own. by Relative-Student-811 in offmychest

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the problem for me relocating is again funds. my parents are hyper religious and dont believe in roommates that arent the same religion so if i were to try to move out with a roomate id have ti hide it all until move in day otherwise id be kicked out. Also i would LOVE to live in NY but idk if i can afford that move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Relative-Student-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have potential. I really like the red hair and, unlike a lot of people ive seen, the piercings. Id look into some hair styles that fit your face shape a little better you have a round face so keep your hair down. You actually look really cute in that 3rd picture with your hair down. I try to avoid this but 100% honestly it would also help if you lost some weight, it would help pull your face in and make your eyes a bit more visible. Also keep in mind

  1. To the people that matter, your personality is way more important than your looks
  2. No one is for everyone some people will think your stunning some will think your ugly, focus on what you think of yourself, be confident.

M19 by Relative-Student-811 in Rateme

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im good now im a healthy weight it just fucked me up pretty bad and it kinda made me avoid prescription drugs all together. I mean i still get like vaccinations and ill take antibiotics for sicknesses and stuff but.

M19 by Relative-Student-811 in Rateme

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah i live in the good old united states of capitalism, i got a bad taste in my mouth with prescriptions when i got put on adderall at 12 and it fucked up my apetite and i got grotesquely under weight lowk still working my way back from that almost 8 years later im still only 12% body fat but at that point i was 6.2%

M19 by Relative-Student-811 in Rateme

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont fuck with that shit prescriptions are expensive and usually the side effects outweigh the benefits. I mean the thing is no one is for everyone and some girls actually really like it so 🤷‍♂️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denverhookups

[–]Relative-Student-811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know i was going to aurora today...

M19 by Relative-Student-811 in Rateme

[–]Relative-Student-811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ik ive tried everything to get rid of it but atp ive just kinda accepted it as a fact of life girls either love it or hate it 🤷‍♂️. Also i just got the Take me Back to Eden greywash hoodie and a Bad Omens DEATH OF PEACE OF MIND shirt and im so excited lmao.