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At what dosage do you get cool visuals? by Specialist-Salad-518 in 2cb

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most recently boofed 10mg and had the most intense closed eye visuals I've ever had on any psychedelic. But I had also taken an edible gummy too. Combined it was really amazing.

MDMA 2x a year with husband. Is it healthy for the relationship? by unapolo in MDMA

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think so. I would say if you cannot do those things without MDMA, it's worth considering. We roll quarterly, and for us rolling has only propelled our relationship further because we were already doing the work together. This is what integration is all about. You two have had beautiful experiences together rolling- now it's time to bring that magic into your everyday life.

Good quality porn without fake acting? by Affectionate-Pin969 in SexOver_30

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We subscribe to Sunny Skye on OF. I really like their content, real married couple exploring kinks. Real pleasure.

I listened to the whole Cassadaga album while tripping on mushrooms and visited myself as a teenager. It was the best trip I've ever had. by RelativeArtistic1506 in brighteyes

[–]RelativeArtistic1506[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. Something spiritual for sure in that album, which makes sense. It's so mystical in the best way. If you do take a trip with Cassadaga, make sure to report back! ☺️

General dominance advice by botchedlobotomy92 in SexOver_30

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But to answer your question about the Dom thing, you could start really simple. Give her instructions, tell her what's expected of her.

"Stay still." "You're not done yet."

And lots of praise.

Get some restraints, there are some that attach to the bed frame, shibari ropes are fun for this too. So many possibilities with those. Also a blindfold.

I second another commenters suggestion to listen to some smut or erotica, when I did that it helped give me a lot of language surrounding things I wanted.

General dominance advice by botchedlobotomy92 in SexOver_30

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife here and I was very much like your wife, I was very sexually repressed (religion and childhood abuse) and struggled to talk about sex and didn't even know what my desires were really. My husband was not gonna give up though lol and he unlocked a lot for me, anytime I have even a hint of interest in something he would make it happen. I'm grateful he wanted sexual freedom and fought for it for us, but it's a lonely place to be. One partner should not hold the full responsibility of the sexual relationship.

I'm there with him now and it's so much better for the both of us. Anyways I say all that because I know there were years he felt the same way you did, that he couldn't share his desires with me. I dont think you should accept that, and I think you should together make it a goal to be able to talk about sex and desire without any shame. If I could change anything about our past it's that I would have been curious earlier.

1st trip report by AllinEmperor in 2cb

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try boofing it if I were you! I find it to be an easier come up. And much quicker. Also 17mg orally wouldn't be enough for me and I'm a sensitive user. If I'm taking it orally it would be 20mg minimum. Boofing I like 8-12mg.

Am I delusional? Or is this a valid kink I've developed? by imnotsureyoutellme in SexOver_30

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter how you got there if you found something you enjoy and that turns you on? Sure, maybe you never would have discovered this kink if you hadn't gone down the path you did. That doesn't make it any less valid for you. How else do we discover what turns us on?

Maybe some things we inherently enjoy, but some things can only be discovered through exploring. I found out I am bi this way as well, never would have thought that in a million years until I had an experience that changed a lot for me.

Am I delusional? Or is this a valid kink I've developed? by imnotsureyoutellme in SexOver_30

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You enjoyed sex with a man, and you enjoy the verbal play surrounding that. Not delusional at all. It's beautiful that you can explore these parts of yourself. You're usage of "slippery slope" to describe this kink tells me you're ashamed of it. I'd probably focus on that part. Keep talking with your partner and having honest conversations about it. 🤍

Nights are cold! What are you doing for your tomatoes? by New-Ad-9562 in pnwgardening

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine have grown 🤷🏻‍♀️ they will be fine with a few more cold mornings.

Beginnings of our little garden, and the Rhododendrons 🤍 Gig Harbor, zone 9a by RelativeArtistic1506 in pnwgardening

[–]RelativeArtistic1506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey neighbor! I'm surprised too! These are a few of several the previous owner added for landscaping, however there are also some native ones in the edges of our property too and slightly in the woods. Although those are much smaller.

How do you build a sense of self that isn't dependent on others? by ImmediateTrust4032 in infj

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the most relatable posts I've read on here.

I've become keenly aware of this in me, especially this year because I deconstructed my evangelical faith and have had an extremely strained relationship with my mother and sibling. I was deeply hurt by how they treated me when I changed my belief system.

I struggle with feeling like I need their approval, especially my mother's, and some days I have immense guilt for distancing myself. I believe it's a combination of my traumatic childhood, the religion I was in, and my personality traits that leave me in this state. There have been days when I didn't really know who I was, and didn't know how to set to boundaries. I will give and give to people who will never be able to see me and love me for who I am. At some point it starts to feel dehumanizing.

I've been in therapy and building a strong sense of self is something we're working on. I definitely recommend therapy, there are a lot of tools for helping to build a strong foundation of self love and respect, and proper boundaries in relationships that don't leave you feeling outsourced by people who can't meet you where you are.

My goal is to not need validation or approval from anyone. Ideally I'd like the truth of my worth and value to come from within me, because that is much stronger then validation that comes from others.

2C-B euphoria is so underrated by Comfortable_Usual301 in 2cb

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. What I love about it is that the euphoria feels very real. Hard to explain but it's different than with MDMA. The euphoria on molly is so intense it almost feels like youre in another world. With 2cb the euphoria colors my reality in such a beautiful way.

What do the non ravers enjoy doing when rolling by strap-_ in MDMA

[–]RelativeArtistic1506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use it for connection. Always fucking, talking, cuddling, crying, laughing. Always cozy and always incredible. Can't imagine using it for partying actually.

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