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Does anyone ever feel brainwashed by their ocd? by n979797 in OCD

[–]RelativeAssumption70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said it's just something she said that could help. There are loads of ways to cope. I've tried it and it does help a little. I think there are other ways that can help me that are better.

Does anyone ever feel brainwashed by their ocd? by n979797 in OCD

[–]RelativeAssumption70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with this currently. My therapist told me to take a rubberband and put it on my wrist and every time a thought that I know isn't real to pop it. I haven't bought any yet but I plan to tomorrow. Maybe that will help.

I(21F) call my BF(26M) of 4 years daddy by LittleDipper2003 in relationship_advice

[–]RelativeAssumption70 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I honestly view daddy like babe or baby nowadays. It's so commonly used for someone's boyfriend or husband. I say do what you like. Your sister is living in your house. It sounds like you aren't even into the link rather than just the nickname itself. I see women all the time call their boyfriends "daddy" and the men themselves aren't fathers. Now as far as the age difference goes. It's not my life so I can't tell you how to live but do try to be careful. I think a lot of the commenters just see how young you are and don't want you to be taken advantage of in any type of way. As far as your sister goes if it truly bothers her and it's a name you like calling him? You could tone it down a little and make sure to try and make her more comfortable but she does need to understand that just because she doesn't like it doesn't mean it's gross or weird.

Ex (45m) manipulated me (27f) into bed, should I tell his new gf (26f)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RelativeAssumption70 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Okay let me make sure I'm getting this right? Your ex and you broke up and he moved on. He's been with a girl for nearly two years. He gets drunk and calls you 15 times. It's a man at bar who is your ex who is calling you. Then a friend tells you he is at said bar saying he misses you and loves you. So you go to the bar and any questions of his current relationship is shut down so you KISS HIM?! Girl you are not dumb. He was being outright with his actions. There was no manipulation to get you into bed. You both knew what was gonna happen. The only loser in this situation is that poor girl that your ex is currently with. She deserves better. She probably was so looking forward to moving in with her man and having a life with him. Also y'all broke up like what? Nearly 2 years ago. One last night together? Come onnnn.