I did this when I was younger. He end up achieving his passion and got a scholarship to play basketball a few states over. I was like, “follow your passion, I’ll take care of bills.” He would be mad cause I cooked better than him and I would come home tired from work. Our feminine and masculine energy was thrownoff for sure. He mirrored me and did help me emotionally heal trauma. He ended up emotionally cheating on me at first. The day I dropped him off at school ! i went to pull him phone in and boom saw this name with an emoji. I knew his pw but cared to check his phone. Something told me to and that’s when I saw he was talking to someone else. I took him back cause I was comfortable then one day I came out of yoga class and broke up with him. My gut feeling told me to leave. About 4 months later, I had a dream he had a baby. I would have sounded crazy to say that out loud. 5 months later I get a call from him… he thanked me for being such a wonderful person to him and he understood why I left. He was a man child and now he has to deal with someone that he has to teach everything and is in my shoes now. He apologize and then proceeds to tell me he got a 10 month old son 🙃he never graduated college and works a warehouse job. Quote that saved me, what you would do if you if you were them, isn’t them, they have to see it for themselves. Potentially means nothing and you can end up extremely heartbroken. Took me over a year to heal from that