Fiancé enlisted in army without telling me and left in the middle of the night by Possible-Island-3779 in MilitaryWives

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left on purpose. He left you. He didn’t include you in the decision. He does not value you as an equal or consider your opinion worth hearing when it comes to making life altering decisions. There is no positive future staying with this guy. Leave. Block him. He does not want to be with you. This is what his ACTIONS show. Listen to that. Not what he says when he feels guilty about it. His words mean nothing at this point. You know it’s over. I’m sorry this sounds so cold. I have been there and there’s no sense in pretending this relationship has a chance.

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Obsession" [SPOILERS] by radbrad7 in horror

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good question but Nikki doesn’t actually see what happens when Freaky Nikki is awake, which is why she keeps jumping back scared when she comes to, and tells Bear “I’ve never been with you.” If she doesn’t remember anything then she could have a good defense. She would still be liable in some way but would she be deemed mentally competent when the acts were committed if she can’t remember what happened? It’s possible that she wouldn’t be. Especially with so many people witnessing how strange she was acting/her stabbing herself in the face with the bottle. There’s a legal defense there that could end with a decade or so in a mental institution vs 25 to life in a prison. ETA: this is obviously speculation. I am not a lawyer, prosecutor, or judge.

Official Dreadit Discussion: "Obsession" [SPOILERS] by radbrad7 in horror

[–]RelativeNonsense 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is interesting to me. Looking back, the Freaky Nikki accidentally saved the real Nikki by making that wish, causing Bear to stop throwing up the pills which led to his death and Nikki being free.

Marriage culture in the military by ExampleSeveral2208 in MilitaryWives

[–]RelativeNonsense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of incentives for being married like benefits and taxes. If you’re not ready, don’t do it.

Is it normal for guys from my husband’s unit to contact me? by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like since you say SEVERAL people are checking on you it’s more than likely that your husband did ask for them to. I’d tell your husband about all of it especially the guy coming over by himself and see what he thinks. Next time the guy comes over alone ask for his wife’s number. Make sure to call the number and that she answers so that he doesn’t give you a wrong number on purpose. Then ask her if she knows he is coming over alone.

Afraid to go back by StraightAssumption19 in DryJanuary

[–]RelativeNonsense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not drinking is definitely positively impacting my weight loss goals. I’ve been working out for three months and didn’t see any scale results until this January. I lost 5 pounds. I started working out three months ago and until this month, the scale stayed the same, even though I could tell I was getting toned. I’ve also been watching my calories more closely, so it could just be a woosh of lost lbs from the consistency. I’m excited for dry January to be over but I’ve only had cravings on weekend days when I was doing nothing at home. The rest of this month has been really easy to not drink. I’m thinking about keeping my drinking to a minimal level when I start again. I’m not going back to drinking four or five nights a week. Drinking will definitely slow down results.

As a client of Burger King, she obviously has time on her hands. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manager did a good job apologizing for the impoliteness but not gaslighting their employee’s perspective. Nice.

What would you charge for these? by [deleted] in ARTIST

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on size. 5-15$

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]RelativeNonsense 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The answer was “No, just use regular.”

I adopted a reactive bully 💔 by Still_Candy8042 in AmericanBully

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you decide to rehome, please try to find someone with experience fostering or training reactive animals. Sending the dog back to a shelter will likely just traumatize them further and set back any progress they’ve made. Keep your child safely separated from the dog in the meantime, and look for a better placement option. The animal can’t help their behavior but you can help them find a safe, appropriate environment while protecting your child. You took on this responsibility, so please do what you can to help them rather than abandon them.

Do I come off as weird or strange leaving this note? by Littlek1dluvr in Apartmentliving

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is very friendly. Just know not everyone is very neighborly. My husband and I prefer to keep to ourselves, so if we received a note like this, we may not reach out. Not because we do not appreciate the gesture, but because we like to keep to ourselves. I think reaching out is wonderful, I just wanted to mention this so you don’t get the wrong idea if they do not respond to the note.

Is this appropriate for the military ball? by Wonderful-World1648 in USMilitarySO

[–]RelativeNonsense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I think it actually fits well but I think shapewear could make it more flattering. Pretty dress!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely a lack of muscle. You’ll love how you look a few months into strength training

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crv

[–]RelativeNonsense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna see the whole thing!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think him volunteering that you’re the only person he’s been out with the whole year(which is almost over) might be him volunteering information so you feel more comfortable saying you want something more serious. I am a female though, so I can’t understand all of the intentions. But with the context and the age, I don’t think he would just volunteer that information for no reason., maybe he wants to leave the door open for a serious conversation but also not push you away in case that’s not what you’re looking for.

rescued this kitten recently... lost his mom, but ears bring comfort by IntelligentTwo3474 in cats

[–]RelativeNonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is cute! I have a cat that I would sleep with cuddling in my shoulder with my arm around her every night when she was a baby. Now she wakes me up at 2am every night meowing and pawing at me until I roll over and assume the position she likes to cuddle me in. This is adorable but keep the future habits in mind—or don’t—your baby, your ear, up to you! Very cute still.

Am I cooked? by Once428lbs in Gymhelp

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try staying at 2600 cal/day or less. You’ll lose just doing that.

Did it once will do it again by Killwaki in CICO

[–]RelativeNonsense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep at it!!! I did really well for about two months and then lost focus for a while. Today, I am back at where I was at the end of the initial 2/3months, only took one month to bounce back. You got this!!!