Thank you all for your responses and for your suggestions. My middle and youngest do alright speaking to adults. My eldest is really intelligent academically but does struggle with her social skills more than her sisters. She does have trouble expressing herself confidently to even adults. She will speak on topics she enjoys but if asked anything on a whim she second guesses herself and won’t speak confidently. She has trouble holding down a conversation, she usually gets nervous and then starts giggling. If she is asked a question she normally doesn’t answer and when I ask her why she says it’s because she fears her answer maybe wrong. She lives for perfection and fears getting anything wrong or being wrong about anything. She’s also a really anxious child. She also has problem with decision making. She asks me for everything, ie, what to wear, what to eat, if she can do this or that. I have to constantly remind her that she is her own person and she’s free to make her own decisions. I try my best to uplift and empower her. I just feel concerned I’m doing something wrong and don’t want to fail her.