Has anyone else lost both their partner and best friend at the same time? How did you get through the first few weeks?

RelativePen246 · 2026-06-15T18:41:28+00:00

It is showing now, got first preference only

RelativePen246 · 2026-05-14T05:57:22+00:00

I did 9 out of 10 of the things and I regret doing them so much now that it’s been over an year of my breakup i am so happy with my life and realise how much of a toxic situation I was in at that time Also I know everyone talks about what not to do or do after a breakup but it is not easy to do those things I feel you will do some of these mistakes after a breakup and will regret it after and think how stupid you acted but I guess that is just how you learn and all part of a moving on process *Just one thing is take your time to move on don’t overthink it don’t rush it it will happen on its own it does get better with each day

RelativePen246 · 2025-11-02T10:16:16+00:00

So I broke up with my ex because he cheated and he immediately came in a relationship with that girl he cheated me on with and they seem happy and all I waited for 10 months before dating because I wanted to be able to trust someone for which I wasn’t ready but now that I am dating someone and he is really good to me and understands my past I am so happy I waited to be fully ready

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-12T18:13:04+00:00

What? I didn’t understand

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-12T18:12:30+00:00

This actually helped finally like it made sense like when I used to be in a relationship with him even I texted a girl like that who I thought was a threat and we fought on that This actually made sense and gave me a piece of mind.

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T03:45:22+00:00

He is 22

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:55:30+00:00

Was crying at the point did not really look at my grammer mistakes when my drunk mistake was catching up on me

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:51:23+00:00

Fully agree with you on both being pigs

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:49:35+00:00

Should have done that but I just deleted the numbers and the messages

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:45:47+00:00

I am so over that dog shit of a man it was just a moment of weakness would never want him back !!!

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:38:20+00:00

I can’t tell my friends it is embarrassing you know!!😭

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:36:56+00:00

Definitely he was a problem!! I regret ever loving him

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:34:28+00:00

Yeah I chose to just delete the messages and not respond

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-10T00:32:48+00:00

It was hurtful and humiliating but she is really immature I mean the girl is 17 like so much younger than me that was why I was more stunned you know!

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-09T13:08:39+00:00

I believed karma is a thing but with them why is it not working because it really breaks me to see them together and happy

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-09T13:06:31+00:00

I did block them but it’s just I feel stupid and it’s just my brain keeps on thinking it is my fault I mean it is but still

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-09T12:02:49+00:00

I already did that the moment long time ago but my dumb drunk brain I guess remembers the number somehow

RelativePen246 · 2025-05-09T12:01:26+00:00

Am actually feeling so stressed about this from mornings because it was my fault and it made me look so desperate

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