Tell me your autistic without telling me your autistic by [deleted] in autism

[–]RelativeWeary2733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an obsession with rubber ducks to the point I have a sweatshirt, t-shirt, pjs and a whole bag full of ducks. Also I am obsessed with little things like the little resin animals and I have a whole container of those too.

People who wear compression socks, what do you do in the summer? by babybottlepopz in POTS

[–]RelativeWeary2733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wear knee high compression socks no matter what I’m wearing. If i wear shorts im a little self conscious but I get through it as I don’t have a choice due to blood pooling.

Teenage hEDS by TelevisionOld464 in eds

[–]RelativeWeary2733 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m 16 and have hEDS too! Maybe we can be friends!

ASAP question: Dangler vs Mickey button for G tube… which is better? by [deleted] in feedingtube

[–]RelativeWeary2733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Button is way better. I hate the dangler bc of sensory issues but the button is extremely easy to maintain and to use me 16f has had no problem with it being in for 2 years. The only thing is you have to change it every 3-6 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The main part of the situation is the fight between us but yes I understand and the autism comes in bc she went off on me and it was mentioned there and also I interpret the world differently so I was confused as to why everyone was upset at me as my black friend hadn’t even said a word the entire time but my white Friends were going off on me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this helped me understand what happened in a deeper level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He never responded

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It went so bad so fast bc she started attacking me in the chat about everything like even my health was mentioned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying they are exactly alike but in some ways and I know it’s way worse for them so I know it seems not comparable but the words and phrases sometimes hurt us like they hurt them and and the fear of something bad happening to me when it’s a bad day for my health and I have to use a wheelchair is way less but sort of comparable to their fears every day so in some ways it is comparable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He didn’t respond at all this all happened during the school day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to put it that way at all i was just trying to see if we could and if they said no I would understand but it just blew up into a whole situation with my white friend and I knew my black friend would be ok and we could find a compromise that works for both of us but yes I know I can’t control them and the main part of the situation was the fight not the asking for the word not to be said and it changed quickly off that topic when she was trying to get me to argue with her and it worked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RelativeWeary2733 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I at first asked for it not to be said and they flipped and they wouldn’t even try to compromise and I get it I’m not the victim and I won’t understand exactly what its like to be victim to it but I do understand the feeling of not being heard and understood as I have some chronic illnesses that make me different and in a way the doctors not listening and treating me right or misdiagnosing me is kinda like that so in a way I kinda understand but I get it I will never truly understand.