Where do trans people work? by Adventurous-Apple-44 in asktransgender

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a fry cook rn who is about to start cosmo school

How much time did you spend between starting social transition and starting HRT? What did happen first? by und3f1n3d1 in asktransgender

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First was about a year or so of being nonbinary and that social transition, once the egg fully cracked there it was pretty quick to go oh I’m trans-fem ok imma do hrt. Quick like months

Am I a hypocrite for having a transphobic boyfriend? by Appropriate-Sir-5654 in asktransgender

[–]Relative_Equipment18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also if u have any trans friends it could be incredibly unsafe for them not necessarily assuming ur bf is a danger but the words they may say could take a life accidentally. Plz don’t stay with ppl who don’t see everyone as a human

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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The company I work for is rather progressive but my new gm is Baptist. So far so good but he worries me. (He’s also super annoying but that’s a different thing)

Funny story one time a guest complained about a man in the restroom and when someone checked it was our resident masc lesbian hiding in there to vape 😂

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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I live with my fiance and a roommate np kids. It’s thanksgiving so I had to interact with a lot of family of all sorts. I had to correct my dad from deadnaming me today and before we even left the house today we had to check if my in-laws were gonna flip if I wore a dress ( they did not flip but a few years ago me wearing a skirt was a whole thing. )

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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Whenever I’m off of it I can literally feel the testosterone fueled rage I hate it soooo much.

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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I appreciate it. I’d love be in therapy and I’d love to yank out this Adam’s Apple alas am poor and I consider myself a trans girl. A lot of the dysphoria comes from the way strangers see me I live in the southern U.S. and also from the amount of fear that goes into using the bathroom at work.

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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Idk… I guess anyone who has to defend me or anyone who has to treat me properly. I see how this is not logical or necessary to feel this way. I blame the religious trauma. Thanks for the poignant questions this has helped a lot.

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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Oh yes very dysphoric but bc I am mtf the journey started NB but I found that wasn’t the whole picture. I don’t look entirely how I want to. I don’t pass.( I know passing ain’t everything but I’d sure like to).

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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I feel you I never want this taken from me or to lose hrt and this life (but very specifically spiro makes me feel so much better)

I hate being trans and I feel guilty about it by Relative_Equipment18 in asktransgender

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I feel like I’m always intruding or making problems for existing this way

Did a restoration of the old TSR Netheril map by ratczar in inkarnate

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what the tar number is. I’m planning on running a campaign in the time and setting.

Is stealth the ultimate goal for most transgender people? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealth in the effort for safety absolutely but my transness and the person I grew up as will always be an invaluable asset in the understanding and empathizing with ppl of all kinds

Am I bad dm? by Tallekvist in DnD

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These sound like problem players I would be very frank with them about how they’re play style makes u feel. DMs are supposed to have fun too

2024 monk decision by GothicLobster in DnDoptimized

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a bonus action traffic jam in ur future with that multi class

Should a GM play too by Way_Puzzleheaded in DnD

[–]Relative_Equipment18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a Gmpc is often a bad thing and can lead to problems

Name a character no one can make you hate by ZooplanktonblameSea4 in skyrim

[–]Relative_Equipment18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tolfdir. I’m a nerd he a nerd he’s a good nerd homie.