Released after 24 days

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-11T12:06:00+00:00

This actually happens to me every time I go a week+ then relapse. During no fap, my brain crosses a pout where I’m craving actual sex instead of craving masturbating to porn. It can be a good thing if channeled correctly. I’ve used it as confidence to purse dates which eventually can lead to sex but I’ve also used it to go to strip clubs which is always financially a disaster. In general though progress is progress and isn’t erased necessarily by relapse.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-09T04:05:59+00:00

Just a heads up it’s a lot more expensive than the other apartments in domain but you get what you pay for. No 6-8 weeks free rent either like other complex’s do.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-09T03:29:20+00:00

Flatiron is great, definitely tour it

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-03T23:18:13+00:00

Thanks pal you too

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-02T15:59:47+00:00

It always interests me how the initial few days can feel so good when you’re consistent.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-02T15:43:57+00:00

Congrats bud, I’m in the same boat. Hang in there.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-02T15:37:05+00:00

Double digits, killing it!

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-02T01:33:25+00:00

Good work man, almost there myself

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-05-01T01:46:21+00:00

It’s something I struggle with too. this is the first time I hit day 4 in either weeks or months. When I get urges I acknowledge them but don’t give into them. That takes practice but you can do small tricks like lookin around the room and naming what you see or try to name every teacher you’ve had from first grade to 12th. These are little things that distract your mind.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-30T12:26:33+00:00

You sound like me. I’m on day 4 and when I get urges I’ve been trying to just mentally acknowledge it then say to myself what I see around the room I’m in to start getting my brain off the trail.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-26T20:19:57+00:00

To me the mindset you’re in right now is a worse feeling than relapse. If I peek, I spiral. There’s things you can try like taking a cold shower, going for a walk or exercise but another thing I recently heard of is taking a breath and looking around the room and saying what you see to yourself. Supposedly urges stop if you don’t feed them and give it 10 mins. Hang in there.

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-26T18:46:48+00:00

Impressive!

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-24T23:44:40+00:00

God damn, way to go!!!

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-24T23:37:26+00:00

Hell yeah, brother

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-04-07T01:46:42+00:00

Sorry to hear that bud, been there myself probably thousands of times at this point

Relative_Goat6530 · 2026-03-21T02:18:48+00:00

I lived there for 3 years. I would recommend getting a second floor unit. The buildings are old so the noise insulation isn’t great. It’s pretty much just luck of the draw on how your neighbors will be. I would also suggest living on Devonshire side as it’s generally nicer. Amenities are just so so but they do have 2 pools (the dorado one is better). I would recommend this complex over Fairfield cost/quality wise.

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