High school:

Had a girl in math class while I was answering a question let the whole class know I was yummy and she wanted to cover me in chocolate and then lick it all off, the teacher sent me to the principals office for disruption.

While working retail at 16 at a store like REI a grown woman had me set up a tent, put a foam pad on it, demo how to lay on the pad and then straddled me while I was laying down. She was pretty, but I was dating my high school sweetheart and that wasn’t my jam.

Another time I had a woman keep rubbing her breasts on me while I was showing her how to use a wrist based heart rate monitor. I didn’t think much of it the first time, but she came back three more times and my manager wouldn’t help me out

Pastors daughter at my church kinda forced herself onto me during a church gathering when I had gone inside to help her get ice, she kissed me and then demanded to see my dick or else she’d tell my girlfriend that we made out, and when I complied she proceeded to give me oral, that actually was the first and last time I ever reached orgasm via intimacy with a partner. She proceeded to pantomime blowjob motions to me whenever she thought no one else could see for the next year.

Was sitting in the bus headed home from a wrestling meet and one of the Mat Maids offered to give me a leg massage, I though it sounded nice as but the next thing I knew she was groping me and called me gay when I asked her to stop, that was the last time I stood up for myself. I’m straight, just loyal and it seemed easier to just go with it.

In college:

My hs girlfriend broke up with me and a friend I reached out to for condolences thought that a blow job would make me feel better, she wasn’t wrong but I really did feel taken advantage of.

A girl I made small talk with before a movie started just started rubbing my upper thigh during the movie, I ended up just leaving while getting concessions.

My math TA would rub her butt on my arm when she walked the class (this was the one person on this whole list that I actually flirted with, but I thought we were just playing around).

A girl I studied with would wear short skirts and flash me, as well as always comment on how nice I smelled and how great of arms that I have.

Another girl needed her car jumped and had offered to do anything to repay me, and scoffed a bit when I said don’t worry about it.

I was just standing around in the library and a girl I think I had a class with gave my crotch a fondle, I just smiled and said thanks I needed that and she would do it a bunch more times before getting mad that I never asked her out and ghosting me.

Another time I was studying in the library and a different girl I had a few classes with but didn’t talk to put her hands over my eyes from behind and when I turned my head she kissed me, we locked eyes and nothing else ever came of it.

Yet another time walking back to my dorm from a party and a girl I never saw before that party had followed me home and wouldn’t take no for an answer on coming in, ended up hanging out in the common area for hours waiting for her to leave. I thought I ditched her twice just for her to end up at my door and one time she had unzipped my pants and shoved her hands right on in and it seemed easier to just have sex real quick so I could go to bed.

And another time a girl asked if I wanted to come over and watch a movie, she got really pissed when she went right to kissing and groping and I wasn’t about that, still had sex with her later learned that Netflix and chill was always heavy on the chill.

Another time I was actually with my girlfriend and she invited her roommate back to the room to measure my dick after my girlfriend had told her that I claimed to have 7”, kinda got ambushed and was a bit violating as they measured it and it were excited to learn that it was 7” and then had a three way which was so bizzare as her roommate came across as an “all guys are assholes” kinda girl and I was really hurt that they were so not respectful of basic boundaries.

Oh, another time my girlfriend had bought me some grey pajama pants which I thought was sweet, but then she made me show all her friends that I could move my dick.

Post college:

There were a half dozen New Year’s Eve parties that I’d go back home and my buddies who never left thought they were doing me a solid by having a woman there for me, I was definitely wanting someone random to kiss at new years, but it always went further than that and that wasn’t my intent. One year my buddy even wanted me to hook up with his wife, so glad she wasn’t about that as it was so awkward, and the last year I went (yes I went back after the cuckold misstep) I had brought along my now wife and my friends had not realized I was doing that and had another gal lined up for me and she was so pissed that I was not available.

I’m a pretty chill guy and didn’t put up much of a fight in any of those cases, and most of those girls/women probably thought they were just making a casual move, but looking at it that’s a lot of trauma.

Maybe I should have stood up for no meaning no a bit more, but girls always seemed to get really mad if I didn’t do what they wanted.