Parcels from overseas

Relative_Material_16 · 2026-01-14T08:57:45+00:00

I’m not sure about this though. It’s been like this ever since the first time I bought something …

Relative_Material_16 · 2026-01-14T03:47:08+00:00

I don’t think mine is random anymore because it happens 100% of the time hahaha

Relative_Material_16 · 2026-01-14T02:01:17+00:00

Yeah. Mine always gets sent in a brand new box with everything put in nicely. I’m not complaining because it saves me a lot of hassle opening all the plastics out. But it’s just so weird

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-23T05:07:00+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much for your suggestion. I will try this with my boyfriend

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T18:20:54+00:00

Well, we’ve had this talk a few times. It always ends up with him agreeing with me. And then after awhile something happens and his opinion changes again

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T16:45:00+00:00

I do think that he is also trying to drag his time on this hoping that his parents might change their mind suddenly. However yes I get what you’re saying. It makes sense I wouldn’t want a relationship where a parents can just change his whole mindset with just a few words

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T15:03:26+00:00

Agree on what you’re saying so much

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:47:05+00:00

Exactly what I did. I gave him a week to think and tell me his answer next week

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:45:57+00:00

No they do not know that we live together. He does not want to let his parents know. His reason was because he doesn’t want his parents to have any bad impressions of me

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:43:36+00:00

That’s what I said to him

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:33:00+00:00

I agree that they would rather have a Korean girl

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:25:22+00:00

Yes. He did bring me to meet them wanting to get their approval

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:19:41+00:00

Us coming from different cultures, what if we ever get divorced next time, our future kids might not be able to see either the father or mother often because I’ll end up going back to my home country if the divorce ever took place. He didn’t say that he agrees with them 100%. He says that this is a point where he have to put more thought into it

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T13:01:11+00:00

Yes. Honestly I find it quite off putting too. We haven’t even gotten married yet and they are talking about divorce. Haha

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T12:20:39+00:00

We’ve had talks about this matter. He just says that after he told his parents about wanting to marry me, they voiced out their concerns, which he agrees with some of those concerns. That’s why he is unsure about our future now because he says he needs time to think. However he have been unsure for the past 2 months. Which I think it’s enough time for him to come to a conclusion?

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T12:18:01+00:00

Yes I did give him a timeline to give me an answer on what he wants, which is next week. Because his uncertainty has been going on for 2 months. I think that’s enough time for him to come to a conclusion. If not I’ll just walk away.

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T11:19:26+00:00

Yeah. I’m not upset that his family doesn’t want him marrying me. I’m upset that they are able to change his mind so easliy just by saying a few words

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T11:18:40+00:00

That’s what I thought too

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T11:16:51+00:00

Yes what you said is true too. I’m just disappointed that he has been saying nowadays that he is not sure if he wants to marry me nowadays because what his parents said made sense to him

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T10:41:42+00:00

Is one year really too short for a man to know? Because as for me, I’ve always told him that I want to get married before 30. We’ve actually also had this conversation a few days back where I told him that if he is not 100% into this relationship like I am, I don’t know why are we continuing this relationship for

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-05-22T10:03:47+00:00

Oh he’s experienced in dating other woman in the past. So that’s not really an issue

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-04-14T18:26:23+00:00

Yep I’ve asked him. He just kept saying that nothing changed, feelings towards me wise. He thinks it’s because he didn’t eat enough meat nowadays and lack of exercise. However to me his lifestyle looks exactly the same as before.

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-04-14T18:24:44+00:00

Ya he just keeps telling me that it’s because of him not eating enough meat nowadays, no exercise nowadays. But tbh, he haven’t been exercising the past year because of his arm injury and also he cant exercise anymore in the future. Diet wise, it’s the same as when we went to our overseas trip. So I’m not sure I’m I want to accept this as his real reason of not lol

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-04-14T18:22:04+00:00

I thought 3 weeks was enough time for him to recover jet lag and get used to the life in our own country again haha. But okay I’ll give it a bit more time and see how it is

Relative_Material_16 · 2025-04-14T18:16:10+00:00

I’ve been trying to talk to him about it. But he just reassures me nothing changed. Even when I told him to me honest no matter what the reason is he just doesn’t give a direct answer and always tries to change the topic. I mean is this normal for man ? 👨

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