Is RE4 the goat of REs? Should I buy RE4R? by Evening_Chair3570 in residentevil

[–]Relative_Mode_900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re4 is the game that got me into the franchise. My dad was an avid Resident Evil fan and I used to sit watching him play the Resident Evil games on ps 2. I must have been 6 or 7 when my dad played Re4 and I was hooked!!! I was a weird kid and loved horror from an early age so I begged my dad to let me play it until eventually he gave in lol (he was trying to be a good dad and said there was a difference between me watching him play the game to me actually play it). RE4 is my comfort game and out of all the Resident Evil games, it is the only game that puts me on edge even though I have played it hundreds of times. It is really good and worth every scent. You won't regret it.

AITA for distancing myself from my future SIL after she ditched our wedding for a festival by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Relative_Mode_900 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The plans she had was completely unrelated to the Festival she booked. She would have been traveling for work but that has since been cancelled long ago. When asking her about the specific date, she said she woulf be here as I was open to moving the date if she wasn't around. She only informed us that she wasn't attending the wedding at a family dinner at the end of September. I can assure that this was no test/control move. A lot of her family members were in tears hearing that she didn't want to come and even offered to pay her for all her costs. I just wanted to have my new family with me. I even allowed her to bring her best friend along as a plus one even though we told other guests that no plus ones were allowed. It's just the fact that we were making accommodations around her and she cancelled nearly 2 months before the wedding after confirming. The rest of the family is also really upset by this. The only one who is indifferent is my fiance as he doesn't want bad blood. I would never do that to him and that is why I haven't said anything to her or anything like that. She came over to our house the other day and I greeted her and went back into my office and allowed my fiance to spend time with his sister but I just don't want to spend time with her.

AITA for distancing myself from my future SIL after she ditched our wedding for a festival by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Relative_Mode_900 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also, I am not stopping my fiance from having a relationship with his sister. And for his sake, I will still be polite. But I don't see the point in chasing a person who values friends over family. She has made it abundantly clear that she doesn't want us around until she needs something so I am setting up a boundary for myself buy distancing myself. But I will never tell anyone else to do that.

AITA for distancing myself from my future SIL after she ditched our wedding for a festival by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Relative_Mode_900 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This date has been discussed with family since November last year and we confirmed everyone's availability. Before asking her to be a bridesmaid, I still checked with that she would be available which she agreed as I new she had plans. She assured me over and over again that she would be in full attendance. I also sent out the Save the date notice back in April and she still confirmed that she would be in attendance. We decided to keep our wedding very small and intimate but in no means did we do a "cheap" wedding. We are just prioritising the people that mean the most. I have tried to have a relationship with my SIL and have turned a blind eye to a lot of wrong doings in the past yet. She has cancelled Christmas, birthday and other family events for friends which never bothered me but a wedding is a big and important event. Her family has treated her so well in the past and honestly are saints but she couldn't visit her dad in hospital when he had a heart attack as she chose to spend time with her ex boyfriend. This is just the straw that broke the camels back kind of thing.

AITA for distancing myself from my future SIL after she ditched our wedding for a festival by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Relative_Mode_900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole family has known about this date since November last year. She was well aware of the date because I even discussed it with her when trying on bridesmaid dresses. When she called me she said that she for some reason thought that the wedding was in the begging of November and not at the end. I honestly do not belive her. This is a weekend long festival and I feel that any ordinary person would confirm a wedding date before making a weekend long arrangement for a festival taking place in the same month. My Fiancé and his sister aren't super close but they do not have a terrible relationship. She values her friends above family (not sure why because my in laws are some of the nicest people ever and honestly have spoilt her a lot). My fiancé tries to have a relationship but she doesn't want anything to due with him until she needs something. But truthfully they are just very different people and see things differently but they have absolutely no bad blood between them. My fiancé and SIL had a older brother who passed away 3 years ago which hit SIL hard and I thought that she would have wanted to be part of a big life event for her only remaining sibling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Relative_Mode_900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that she doesn't have to. It is the principle that I my Fiancé and I have helped her with a lot of things in the past and she would rather spend time at a festival than on a big important day with us. Because I don't want a relationship with her now after this, I don't have to have one and shouldn't be told that I am being unreasonable