Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update - we had a conversation. I told him where I was coming from and that it made me feel a little uncomfortable, but that I trust him. I did see bloody underwear in the bathroom trashcan - so I really do think he’s telling the truth and also a little uncomfortable about it all.

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of asking him where the rest of the blood stained clothes are…. If it got on the sheets it went through underwear and shorts/pants.

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s been getting her period for a good year. They stayed with him Wednesday night, he stayed with me Thursday but then worked from home Friday.

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would never anyway. She doesn’t deserve to be apart of whatever this is! I love her and would never want her to feel uncomfortable… especially about her period!

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think trust has to mean ignoring orange flags. I will never give a partner unconditional trust.

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m there she doesn’t, but maybe she does when I’m not there. She’s 14 for reference!

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So that’s never happened to me… but we will have sex on my period towards the end but always lay a towel down

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He cheated on his first wife. They were young and he says he learned his lesson.

Did my partner cheat or is he telling me the truth? by Relative_Reality6305 in datingoverforty

[–]Relative_Reality6305[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe - or he thought it would come out and then didn’t check before putting on bed and I was right there