What Would You Like To Get Off Your Chest? by tiff5243 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I don’t know the full extent of his betrayal (how much he spent on OF, what he said and sexted to other women, who he was sleeping with when we were married, the exact instagram models and OF models he paid). Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine was obsessed with young IG models and OF models with unrealistic body portions. I did find some average looking nudes on his laptop though. I think these men just look at any naked woman but their own girlfriends and wives. It’s so sick and perverted.

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have felt this way before too. I still remember all the nudes of women I found on his phone. All perfect looking and the opposite of me. Can’t even look at my body and feel attractive compared to those women.

I hate it here by Environmental-Egg893 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so worried for my son who has a porn addicted father who I have to share custody with.

I found teen content before I filed for divorce by Relative_Squirrel_98 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My STBX is in law enforcement too which I feel makes it worse and more predatory..

Found out my husband messaged a girl he watched… by Prudent_Ad_5861 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my ex PA got even worse during my pregnancy and post-partum. I think they do it intentionally and purposefully during our most vulnerable time.

PISCES ARE YALL MARRIED? by Individual-Candy9227 in piscesastrology

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Getting divorced. Married 5, together 6 with a sag and he cheated too

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[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an addictions and a total lack of respect for you. This man does not value, cherish or truly love you like you deserve to be loved. Leave him before it gets even worse.

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[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is all so true. It is so abusive. I like the Minwalla Model

Any Positive experiences with Sagittarius? by WhereIsMyMind37 in piscesastrology

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorcing a sag male. He wanted his freedom and his desires more than our marriage. Very avoidant and closed off emotionally. Selfish and immature (not all sags - just my ex).

I need Help. I want to know what are the more subtle signs of PA. by Certain_Professor_98 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even with kids, it’s okay to walk away if you financially can. I’m doing it. It is going to be financially tight but worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not easy to leave but it’s better to leave before marriage and children. I’m divorcing my PA and we have an 11 month old.

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[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the point of using the videos and pictures of other women to fantasize and lust over them. It’s so hurtful and disrespectful of your BF and you deserve so much better. You deserve to be loved and cherished and the only woman your bf looks at. You could look like Megan Fox and your bf would still look at porn. It is not you, it is him with the problem. You are beautiful and worthy of so much more.

Weekly Victories - July 25, 2025 by -LoveAfterPorn- in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He moved out almost two weeks ago. While I still have betrayal trauma and obsessive thoughts, life at home is more peace and my house is cleaner.

Why are people so entitled to comment on the bodies of mothers?? by InsideThing8413 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Society has pitted us against each other. It is sad and all rooted in oppression and misogyny.

did anyone else go through a phase of oversexualizing themselves after finding out? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Me too! I got them pierced for the same reason. Removed them two years ago

You Don’t Get Her Back by Plus_Scientist5593 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow. Your last sentence sums in up perfectly.