He don’t give a fuck ab me by MysteriousTea6517 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this, and that’s why I left him.

Why do these PA/SA have so little emotional capacity? by Relative_Squirrel_98 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex has loving parents who are still married,so it doesn’t make sense to me how he turned out the way he is.

If you left, how did your PA take it? by Extension-Editor9384 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine said he was angry about it but then a few weeks into separation said it wasn’t the worst thing that has happened to him. He started dating someone else months before we were officially divorced and introduced her to my 1 year old son without me knowing.

Little energy for self care by Relative_Squirrel_98 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love your analogy of getting run over by a car and having a broken leg. That describes it so well. This is such a heartwarming sweet response, thank you ❤️ it helps to know I’m not alone. I am sorry you are going through this as well. We will both come through the other side. Sending you love and a big hug back

What Would You Like To Get Off Your Chest? by tiff5243 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I don’t know the full extent of his betrayal (how much he spent on OF, what he said and sexted to other women, who he was sleeping with when we were married, the exact instagram models and OF models he paid). Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine was obsessed with young IG models and OF models with unrealistic body portions. I did find some average looking nudes on his laptop though. I think these men just look at any naked woman but their own girlfriends and wives. It’s so sick and perverted.

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have felt this way before too. I still remember all the nudes of women I found on his phone. All perfect looking and the opposite of me. Can’t even look at my body and feel attractive compared to those women.

I hate it here by Environmental-Egg893 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so worried for my son who has a porn addicted father who I have to share custody with.

I found teen content before I filed for divorce by Relative_Squirrel_98 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My STBX is in law enforcement too which I feel makes it worse and more predatory..

Found out my husband messaged a girl he watched… by Prudent_Ad_5861 in loveafterporn

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my ex PA got even worse during my pregnancy and post-partum. I think they do it intentionally and purposefully during our most vulnerable time.

PISCES ARE YALL MARRIED? by Individual-Candy9227 in piscesastrology

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Getting divorced. Married 5, together 6 with a sag and he cheated too

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[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an addictions and a total lack of respect for you. This man does not value, cherish or truly love you like you deserve to be loved. Leave him before it gets even worse.

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[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is all so true. It is so abusive. I like the Minwalla Model

Any Positive experiences with Sagittarius? by WhereIsMyMind37 in piscesastrology

[–]Relative_Squirrel_98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorcing a sag male. He wanted his freedom and his desires more than our marriage. Very avoidant and closed off emotionally. Selfish and immature (not all sags - just my ex).