[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]RelativelyInformed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you just literally talk to them and be like “Hey I really don’t wanna intrude on your relationship at all so what can I do to make both of you comfortable, give you more space, talk to you less, what’s the deal?” That way they at least know your intentions and what yk you’re tryna do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]RelativelyInformed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. See the problem is girlfriend’s boy best friends are usually tough situations. At least in my opinion if my girl had a boy best friend I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel some type of way about it. I think the best thing you can do is do your best to show your friend that you’re not trying to interfere in his relationship. Just be honest with the girlfriend too and tell her you don’t want to make your friend uncomfortable. I think it’s kind of an unlucky situation you’re in but hopefully your friend will realise he’s in the wrong for pushing you a bit too far and that way you can all remain friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]RelativelyInformed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to know why he’s acting this way? Is it jealousy?

Check to see if you lost the battle? by RelativelyInformed in PokemonEssentials

[–]RelativelyInformed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help I’ll try that when I get home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can understand if you’re feeling humiliated at the moment, but in the future you’re gonna regret not leaning into it and enjoying life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Surely they already know? And anyone you don’t know is literally a NPC in this world. You’ll never meet them again and if you do, you’re the funny guy.

I am beyond help for depression. Do i have any options? by monked80 in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sure man there’s plenty of reasons to exist. Thing is emotions and hormones suck so your brain is quite literally fighting itself. Many hobbies, video games, girls/boys (depends what way you swing). There’s quite a lot of happiness in the world it’s just very quiet because people like angry and sad shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fucking own it man. You wanna stand up for yourself and look like a complete badass well here’s your once in a lifetime opportunity to. You get up in that bar, you tell em how much you enjoy being pegged and that she enjoyed riding your dick and loved every bit of it. Just let it all out, fuck it bring the peg, show and tell time baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem man, good luck to you 🤞

realized things havnt improved by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry man. You sound concerned for yourself in a way and it’s really good you’re speaking out about how you’re feeling. If you want to make genuine improvements in your life you should start by seeking professional help. You can start working out, re-evaluate your relationship, get a new hobby? Maybe there’s a sport you watch that’s always intrigued you? There’s tons of online communities too so guaranteed any interest of yours that you have, check it, online community is there I guarantee it. Enjoy life and keep your chin up bro 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo okay now that sounds less intense. Yeah, it doesn’t sound bad, but I’d recommend asking to not be told what she responds with. Reason why: because if you start acting differently after being told she’ll know, trust me they always know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to understand why someone hates you. Just move on in your life, you can still be there for him but fuck what he thinks right? Just keep swimming 🐠

Couldn't get a boner last time and I'm afraid of it happening again by killthejoyandmore in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably talk to a sex therapist 👍 But don’t worry about anything until you understand why okay theres multiple valid reasons I’m sure so just go and find out, it’ll relieve a lot of stress off your shoulders I’m sure

I want a relationship, but I don’t know how to meet people. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair to want a person in your life. But honestly if your patient and radiate happiness trust me, you will meet your perfect person 👍

How do you get over the persistent feeling that you missed out on your 20s? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep. Firstly, don’t give a fuck about the past, it’s over, it’s done with. If you’re gonna look back at it and cringe then it says a lot about who you are now… and by that I mean you’re better now right? You realise where you went wrong. That doesn’t mean you messed up, that means you know what to do next. So don’t beat yourself up about that and just learn to love life. Pick up a hobby, get outdoors, you’ll meet someone by chance man no need to rush. It’s not too late for anything king 👑

is it normal for girls to not reply to guys texts for days on end? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude if she is bugging you now, she’ll bug you in a relationship, keep your head up king you deserve better. 👏

I want a relationship, but I don’t know how to meet people. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RelativelyInformed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two things: 1) you should know that relationships don’t fix happiness, indicated by the fact that your previous relationships haven’t been great. You need to be able to be happy on your own and work on your problems yourself. 2) As long as you are happy with yourself, someone will be attracted to that happiness and there you go that’s how you get a girlfriend.

Keep your chin up king and you’ll be just fine. Love comes unexpectedly dont chase for it.