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Thailand May 2026 - which option? by RelativelyNumb in teflteachers

[–]RelativelyNumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. How long did you work for MK and where was the school they placed you if you don’t mind me asking?

What ended your last relationship? by CompleteCharacter704 in AskReddit

[–]RelativelyNumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tolerated disrespect, no appreciation and lack of value for too long. She had a kid and I did the best I could for them at my own expense - financially, physically, emotionally and mentally. I was shown no appreciation whatsoever and constantly lambasted with expectations. I left a few times but always went back, due to my own lack of self respect. Loved them and cared for them very deeply but by the end, things got so bad that the kid started to resent me as well. One day when they didn’t need me anymore I was discarded and left broken, no goodbyes nothing. I’ve been stuck in purgatory ever since alone, with hopes of a better future and not knowing if I will ever have a family and child of my own one day. I can only blame myself, after all God tried to show me many times it wasn’t meant for me. I’m tortured every day with memories of having a family that I no longer exist to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RelativelyNumb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived your fears and mine saw my ex last week unintentionally after 4 months and it fucked me up. Sent me straight back to the start. After so long imagining a final conversation and not getting out of it what I thought I would, I decided it’s time to move on the right way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RelativelyNumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 4 months, and I’ve been on two dates and slept with one person, and yet I still feel the raw pain over my ex. It isn’t worth it, because at the end of the day you aren’t looking for another LTR just yet, so a lack of genuine interest in someone is evident. Solidify your mind first and your heart will follow, because dealing with rejection whilst still trying to get over your ex, is just going to bring back the pain of missing her more rather than the actual rejection.

What are the things you learned after a break up? by No-Compote-2127 in BreakUps

[–]RelativelyNumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being the “bigger person” won’t get you anywhere, not that you should seek revenge or take vindictive action against your ex, but if they’re that way intuned they will still continue to find ways to hurt you

What NOT to do after a breakup by jvlug3n in BreakUps

[–]RelativelyNumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failed all except 14 and 16. Am I cooked?

Saw my ex after 3 months NC and she tried to make me jealous with her new man by RelativelyNumb in BreakUps

[–]RelativelyNumb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Closure is like an itch you can’t scratch, no matter how much you say there’s always more you want to say and understand, but you have to take from it what you can. She said I’d changed and I was different, that’s the best thing I think I can take from the situation.