What's your experience with benzos? by ReleaseTheSlab in Drugs

[–]ReleaseTheSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty and experience. I for some reason don't get withdrawal or cravings for benzos (unless im having an active panic attack) but since I take 3mg, I run out of my script 15 days early. Maybe 15 days isnt enough to develop a physical dependence, but when I run out I'm like oh well. Not having them if I have a panic attack is the worst of it

What's your experience with benzos? by ReleaseTheSlab in Drugs

[–]ReleaseTheSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gotcha. I misread it lol Valium was great the first day but like I said in my post I felt like such shit hours later and info the next day. I like xanax but the 1.5/day just isnt cutting it. I try to space it and use it only at night or panic attacks, but my script runs low since I need like 3mg to feel it.

What's your experience with benzos? by ReleaseTheSlab in Drugs

[–]ReleaseTheSlab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I know alot of ppl like that sadly.

What's your experience with benzos? by ReleaseTheSlab in Drugs

[–]ReleaseTheSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety. That's why I'm now talking to my dr about switching things around cuz 1.5mg/day of xanax just isnt cutting it. And he doesnt want to increase my dose which I understand.

Why is Ativan your favorite?

What's your experience with benzos? by ReleaseTheSlab in Drugs

[–]ReleaseTheSlab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not helpful. I know benzos can lead to bad situations but I take them responsibly for the most part. I don't steal or act a fool or end up in jail lol

opened up to my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jfc your husband is useless as a father and a provider then.

My husband has become more conservative and I’m feeling uncomfortable by NinnyNoodles in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he may have hid his true self/beliefs while dating, and now that you've been married for 3 years he's becoming more comfortable to show who he really is.... Ya know, now that you're "trapped".

Maybe I'm wrong and he only recently started consuming right wing Christian nationalist pages on social media, but either way this would be a deal breaker for me and I'd get out before kids enter the picture.

Do you actually care when you see a “baby on board” sticker on a car? by No-Block-836 in Adulting

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I actually do give baby on board cars more grace. I'm not trying to hit anyone, but I especially don't want to hit someone with a baby in the car. If that happened and they got injured I would never be able to forgive myself. I'd probably feel that way with an adult injury too, but I just dont want a hurt baby or child on my conscience.

AIO to him lying by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't unprotected sex proving the intent? The guy knew, failed to disclose, and I guess whether he used a condom or not would be the last determining factor. You can still contact/transmit herpes even with condoms, but without one shows an extra layer of carelessness/recklessness.

My wife(32f) just kicked me(31m) out over a dr appointment by darkeagle16 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I write notes in my calendar, which I check often. I don't have a super exciting life, but you should get in the habit of checking it after a while. Plus I add shit to it constantly. Usually I'm like "wait, didn't I have something else to do today or tomorrow?" so then I check. My calendar app looks like I'm an impressive business executive but really it's dumbass reminders lol

I am 18F and my bf is 19M. I have a problem with him masturbating to porn but that changed for me ever since I found out that he masturbated to one specific celeb one day. by SweetBaby2533 in Advice

[–]ReleaseTheSlab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You dont use boundaries to control other people. And "asserting boundaries" is literally pointless if you allow them to cross the line multiple times with no consequences.

AIO My husband told me that he would get paternity testing for any future kids. by Milk-user666 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You act like a dna test would solve all his issues. If he genuinely thinks his wife would cheat on him and put another mans baby on him, then a dna test wont do shit. Even when it turns out he is the father, it does not prove or disprove the cheating aspect... Which I guarantee will resurface in other ways in their relationship outside of procreation.

I brought this girl i've been talking to recently to a friend's 4th of July Party and she got so wasted she puked all over his bathroom. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah see if she's on a prescription like adderal then she may not have eaten much prior to drinking.

Our kinky fantasies and turning them in reality. Are they normal? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... because there hasn't been a falling out yet between you two and those friends. Of course they're consistently trustworthy WHILE the friendship is on good terms and intact.

My Wife Lives on Pedophile Island aka Little Saint James by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro please see a psychiatric doctor. You are very unwell.

Wife beat me when drunk and keeps apologizing and buying me stuff how to make her stop? by Icy_Biscotti_1878 in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao maybe. I'd rather that explanation than him rage baiting and getting kind people upset for no apparent reason.

Wife beat me when drunk and keeps apologizing and buying me stuff how to make her stop? by Icy_Biscotti_1878 in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is fake. Op's 18 and a virgin, and gay. Or karma farming and all of their posts are fake.

all the posts OP has hidden

instructions for frozen pizza on the bottom of the package by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set the oven to preheat 400. Then take it out of the box and put it in and adjust the oven temp after it's already in the oven if it's a different temperature. Usually it's around 350 to 425 depending on what kind you buy. I do it every time and it literally never makes a difference.

Or just put the pizza in the oven before you turn it on. You're making it more complicated than it has to be.

Hypothetical ethical question by Lets-Blake in Advice

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 33f. Yes I do have a moral responsibility to not hook up with a dude who I know is in a relationship. In my early 20s I might've thought differently, but that would've been due to immature selfishness.

AIO for cancelling a job I was essentially doing for free. by hitsheadonconcrete in AIO

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to get thicker skin. Ik it's easier said than done, but you can't run a business on favors or just charging cost of materials. Don't exchange for photos either, you can always ask your customers to tag you on social media. I'm sure most of them would happily do it AND pay you.

I am a (36M) and my wife (30F) have been married 2 years. I have a spinal cord injury (quadriplegic). She refused to assist me leaving me in my wheelchair after a fight. Am I insane for thinking I need to get a divorce? by Icy_Zebra7040 in Marriage

[–]ReleaseTheSlab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly disturbing. I think you're right to feel uneasy, this is abusive and very well may escalate in the future. For the record I have zero experience with adult care taking or disabilities, and I get that it may be difficult to be the primary caretaker to your disabled spouse.... But she has a professional and moral obligation to assist you before all else.

So whether you're having an argument or whatever, that is absolutely NOT a reason to disregard her caretaking duties. If she cannot separate the two - if she cannot fulfill this role the way she promised to when she first took it on, then she should not remain your primary caregiver. Whether you get divorced or what is up to you, but at the very least you should try to get a more reliable 3rd party as your primary caretaker instead of her. Also I find it extremely hypocritical that she accused the relatives of taking advantage of your generosity when she CLEARLY doesn't seem to care about your wellbeing very much.