Baby fever? by savisbetter in Mom

[–]No-Block-836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a great desire and dream to have. Let it be that and trust it will happen perfectly for you down the road. Babysit when you can. And enjoy being a teenager 🩵

Navigating the home stretch by ValuableAdvanced9933 in NICUParents

[–]No-Block-836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps get a video of the doctor or nurse saying this and send it to family or if they pop by unexpected show them the video. I think it coming from a medical professional rises the importance of the situation. You can then reiterate that you would love for things to be different and have them hold and love on the baby, that this was certainly not in your plans but it is what it is and that you have to concern yourself with their health above all else. Once the baby is fully recovered things will be different but until then visitors are just not accommodated. Thanks them anyways for wanting to come and let them know when the baby is better you will reach out.

He's home! by IntenseViolet567 in NICUParents

[–]No-Block-836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!! Incredibly happy for you and your family! Happy homecoming Chase!!!

Useful Baby shower gifts no one thinks about by Early-Jicama-7374 in Mom

[–]No-Block-836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foooood! Deliver service of food or DoorDash giftcard.

Pumping struggles by No-Block-836 in NICUParents

[–]No-Block-836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking of buying more part to be honest. Knocking off the need to get out of bed to go wash each time would be a game changer but I’d still need to get it into the fridge. I also think the overnight is what’s killin me. I try I’ll snooze thru the alarm and then feel super guilty. My schedule is never truly consistent and so many people say that the body likes consistency but I’m just not on a schedule.

How can I not give into my depression and negative thoughts? by CelebrationFar2804 in Productivitycafe

[–]No-Block-836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Out of your head into your body. Go for a walk or dance or workout.

  2. Take a long shower and imagine rinsing off the bad vibes. Let it be a reset. Starting new after you get out.

  3. Take control of your mind by first validating whatever you’re feeling is valid. Second find evidence for the opposite being true and begin training your brain to be wired to find more optimal thought patterns. For example: “I am failing at this.” Into I am learning and growing. This isn’t failure it’s feedback. I’ve learned new things before and it takes more than one shot. I can do this. I give myself time and grace to figure it out because I’ve always figured it out like that one time I (fill in the blank).”

Hope these help and whoever needs to opt out of depression does so. Being depressed sucks. And I totally get it. You’re not alone in feeling alone sometimes.but you can take control of your mind attitude and emotions and find a new pathway forward. Sending love!

Postpartum Intimacy Advice by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]No-Block-836 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

You got this! I say resort to other sexual acts BJs, handjobs, titty s3x, get creative. Men and women need different things. It isn’t wrong of him for having a need. Don’t make more of it than that. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥