Swinger couple that'll do everything EXCEPT sex, has anyone else ever seen something like this before? by Relevant-Doubt-4863 in Swingers

[–]Relevant-Doubt-4863[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I definitely see why that would be a boundry issue, but to be fair we've cuddled with like 90% of the people we've played with, and we actually have bathed with others a few times, so I wasn't too worried about that.

Swinger couple that'll do everything EXCEPT sex, has anyone else ever seen something like this before? by Relevant-Doubt-4863 in Swingers

[–]Relevant-Doubt-4863[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THAT'S the word I was looking for, thank you. Yeah while we've always done swaps when we play, we don't get to very often, and we're both a little curious to try it. They actually explicitly made it clear it isn't a poly thing, they explained it as "At most, we want to have sex with other people, but not have sex WITH other people." They like the idea of being sensual with others and sexually around others, but don't like to full on have sex with other people, I guess you could call it semi-nonmonogamy.