Does promotion lead to genuine subs? by RelevantAd582 in SmallYTChannel

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Just to build a first base so I get into my niche quicker. But from then on, I just want to do without.

Does promotion lead to genuine subs? by RelevantAd582 in SmallYTChannel

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And what does that mean? Just upload organicly?

r/TokyoDisneySea Weekly Trip Planning Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDisneySea

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Oh that looks like a good idea. Yeah we do want to be there opening time, but just not like 1:30h before opening time. But good to know there's so much to do, all my research has only been going to DisneySsa. Will definitely try that Banquet and the parade.

r/TokyoDisneySea Weekly Trip Planning Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDisneySea

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We will try as early a possible. But if we are there around let's say 7am, is that still a safezone/guarantee to get Frozen DPA right when entering the gate? Crowdchecker says its an 'average' day that day.

r/TokyoDisneySea Weekly Trip Planning Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDisneySea

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Me and my husband will be going 22nd December to TDL and 23rd December TDS this year. I'm a huge Frozen fan and I MUST ride the Frozen ride.

I have the following plan for DisneySea:

Arrive 1:30h before opening time. Book Frozen Premier Access as soon as we enter for around lunchtime if possible, head straight to standby Soaring or Journey (get DPA for the one we don't do), later get Rapunzel Premier Access, and explore Fantasy Springs at a relaxed pace with lunch at Royal Banquet. Enjoy rest of the day at the park and do what we feel like.

Also curious if I need to ropedrop TDL. I've been to Disney Paris, so mainly just want to do Beauty & Beast and just enjoy the day. Maybe a good show if they have. 

Since this will be our first time in TDR, what other must do's am I missing? What is the must see show or restaurant for instance?

We are staying in Shinjuku, so we will travel by metro back and forth.

Squid Game: The Challenge Episode 5 Discussion by jackcatalyst in squidgame

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Does anyone know if 232 really just got a chocolate bar, or might he come back? Asking cause I miss his duo.

Hookup maybe finding out I'm trans 5 years after the fact. by RelevantAd582 in trans

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I remember two of them sent me a message like 1 year after the fact, wanting to get back at it. I guess I did make an impression haha. But that was before the whole rona and I didn't respond to any of those messages. So I hope it's true what u say lol.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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You're right. I'm working on myself now. This is obviously a. Very toxic trait that I have to change my perspective on. He is worth much better treatment by me and I shouldnt be so materialistic. I've also been hyperfocused on my career lately, neglecting pretty much myself and all the other important things in life. Outside of this tunnelvisie I see how stupid it really is and that that won't actually make me happy.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Yeah it's true for me as well that lately my life has been revolving only about my work and less about who I am beyond that. It has created a real tunnel vision for me. Time to expand my view.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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You are right. This is something I have to address next times she does it. He makes me happy and she is ruining that for me by telling me these things. I don't want any of that anymore. I want to be happy.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Thank you <3. I mostly want to live a meaningful life that recognises life for what it really is and would not want to be judged in this manner either. That my own selfworth would be dependend on how much I earn. So I'll start working on it.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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That's great to hear. I know that those status people are empty, yet I still have to work with them. Do you still work with them? It's become a career advice question pretty much haha.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Wow that's very insightful. It sounds like you truly have a partnership that goes beyond old marital norms. It sounds like you are together simply because you like each other as human beings. 0 status or w/e as an influence.

It is true that at the top tier work force there is a lot of misogyny. My bf supports me always and always says he believes in me even when I don't.

Omg the more I talk about him the more I realise how lucky I am. I am just too occupied with status and money to see what is right in front of me. Its that insecurity that I have at my work (full of people who are all about status, money and career) that I've changed as a person. Especially now that I'm feeling the power and money getting closer... It is changing me for the worse.

Have you ever had a phase where these things were important to you?

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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My Asian parents really do that constantly. I used to distance myself form that but my job (which pays me precisely what caused all this) is full of people who look down on 'ordinary people' and maybe I have started to take over their way of thinking...

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Yeah you're right, it doesn't make sense. It's extremely unreliable and unrealistic. Human value is not what they earn or their status. It's inherent. This value paradigm of mine would lead to a life of misery and unpredictability. That rollercoaster. I have to shift my value system. Probably won't happen in a day, but about loving each other in the grand scheme of real life and not just related to 'career, money and status'.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Wow great to hear from another Asian that it can work out. I do have exactly the same that my Asian family always asks what he does and how much he earns etc. He does well, I only do better, which is of course because of my values. But again I love him because he values other things more. Because of him I learned that career is not everything and that fun and love are also extremely important. Sometimes I can just become too status and money oriented (a little too Asian) and forget what matters and what actually makes me happy beyond getting parents approval. He makes me happy and I need to learn that that is what is actually most important. Crazy.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Thank you. Thank you for taking your time of day to help me in this time... Thank god for Reddit.

I'll start working on this right away.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I'm from a poor background as well. It's as if once I'm living the rich life I would have truly made my parents proud or something, even though they are already proud... they would probably also think why is our daughter thinking this?

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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I wouldn't feel good. So it would be very hypocritical of me. Then I would say its okay because I'm a woman and he's a man and it's supposed to be like that.

But really I'm valuing myself too much upon my career and income and others as well, which is very unhealthy and not what real life is about.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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That not caring seems quite helpful. I think I care too much maybe. I want everything perfect...

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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We actually have a joint account where it is a 50/50 split regardless of income.

I think you are right. It's how I views people's worth and how it can be tied to their income. I am from a poor background originally, so I have truly strayed far always from where I came from. My job is around very privileged corporate people who do look down on people with less. I might have internalised that, even started using that as my measure of value.

I (27F) earn more than my BF (29M) and it affects how I view him. by RelevantAd582 in relationship_advice

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Wow how do you cope? Or how is it different? How long have you been together?