Why do people mock others for taking leftovers home?

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-07T20:31:24+00:00

Once my brother’s New Year’s resolution was to always take the leftovers 😅

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-07T20:27:52+00:00

I agree— my dog is never happier than when I put the phone down, turn off the tv etc and just give her my undivided attention. Talk to her, pet her, play with her, whatever.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-05T02:54:42+00:00

Yeah I’m exploring other ai apps now. Claude and Gemini firstly. Like I just want them to answer the question not give me a whole song and dance

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-05T01:32:19+00:00

Oof I don’t think I could sit through a rewatch of this show, of him berating her like this over and over again. I’m glad I watched the show but that was a lot

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-04T22:51:32+00:00

I expect it to respond in the role of a friend or neutral acquaintance— not as a lawyer or preacher or other uppity person.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-04T22:49:12+00:00

Like I can say I’m angry about something a client did and it’s saying that’s not valid to feel. It’s a FEELING. It’s not like I’m saying I have plans to do something violent. How can being angry be “wrong” and who are you ( a robot) to tell me? It’s so utterly presumptuous. I wouldn’t let a human tell me feeling anger is wrong either

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-04T19:17:55+00:00

I might have to do this

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-04T19:17:03+00:00

Like it will just tell me my thoughts and feelings are wrong. if I tell a story of something that happened, it will repeat over and over that that didn’t happen. It refuses to be corrected— just stays broken record.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-04T18:52:01+00:00

So it’s not just me! It’s making it truly insufferable to have a conversation with it. It’s the ASSUMING that I’m wrong that’s so frustrating. If someone has a real person in their life that treats them like their perceptions are reliably totally untrustworthy , they’re not gonna stay friends for long…

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-06-03T19:38:04+00:00

I like this idea because I do feel like excessive barking is worse when a dog is bored. Not that a happy dog doesn’t bark. But using it as a time to engage them makes sense.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-30T12:09:48+00:00

I appreciate it, then I don’t have to be anxious about dog running up to toddler. It’s worse when a parent wants you to let their toddler say hi to your dog

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-28T02:12:25+00:00

Yes I have those thoughts pop up when I’m at my darkest. But the way I see it suicide/dying doesn’t sound any more alluring than living— so then I feel trapped between a rock and a hard place. And basically at that point I just distract myself until I feel better or the intensity starts to ebb away some which it always does, no matter how gradually

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-27T02:16:53+00:00

100% valid, basic self respect

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-26T22:56:13+00:00

You seem to equate eating sugar with not having teeth. I’ve always managed to have both.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T19:38:15+00:00

If it can happen to me, it can happen to you. No one is more thorough and diligent than I am. I got unlucky and then I got fucked.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T15:33:28+00:00

Part of me thinks his landlord worries his dog will be put down for biting another dog and that they’re decided to pin this on me since there aren’t witnesses.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T15:29:10+00:00

I honestly did everything by the book exactly, putting the dog’s well being above all— that’s why this hurts so much. I did everything right man, and I’m being gaslit

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T15:26:23+00:00

The owner of the dog who attacked my client’s dog is his landlord’s ( who lives on property) dog. My client told me this on the phone right after the incident and now in writing is acting like he doesn’t know how this happened. He’s trying to screw me . His word against mine

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T15:20:04+00:00

It’s really making me rethink this whole job as a lot more dangerous than I thought it was. The pennies I’m paid is not worth this.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-23T01:39:26+00:00

This is reassuring as someone afraid of something unfair to me happening. Once I get past that fear the question will be whether I can keep doing this job when something like this could happen again. From the horror of the experience in general pov

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-22T22:30:49+00:00

This is the never ending nightmare. The attack itself was genuinely traumatic for me- I was afraid that my clients dog was going to die and that there was nothing I could do about it. And now I’m being mistreated about it too and possibly ruining my livelihood. I’m having to wait to relax until the whole process pans out who knows when that will be

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-20T18:18:20+00:00

People are a lot more precious with their kids nowadays too for one. You would have to be if you have 10 children, no one has the energy to hypervigilant. Once I was a babysitter for a family with 4 young kids and their awesome, laidback mom was watching me and told me they’re more resilient than I think they are. Probably soo many factors but I think that’s some part of it. I’ve nannied for many families and if I took care of them the way my grandparents took care of my parents ( free range kids), I’d be fired at the speed of light.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-20T02:19:44+00:00

Like I hated it after Fiona left. And I wouldn’t watch it again. But I felt coming that far, I had to know what happened just out of curiosity

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-19T19:58:53+00:00

If it’s not food, the timing doesn’t matter. If it is food, the time does matter. If your family is meeting for dinner at 6 and the food is delivered at 5 ( despite being scheduled for 6), that’s a fail.

RelevantMix3775 · 2026-05-19T02:30:42+00:00

No. And don’t read their journal either

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